Lost-n-confused Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 A girl I met on match asked for my number. She finally texted me yesterday and we had about 3 exhanges each before she said she would text me back later. My dad and I are now in a heated debate. He says I should text her now and ask her if I can call her. Then if she says yes and I call her and then ask her out to coffee. I tryed to tell my dad that it will look despret. He calls me a pu**y.
boogieboy Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 I think her saying "Ill text you later" is actually a blowoff. But in case she does, you call her after the next text and ask her out. Dont ask her if you can call her, that makes you look like a pussy. Take charge of the situation.
alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 A girl I met on match asked for my number. She finally texted me yesterday and we had about 3 exhanges each before she said she would text me back later. My dad and I are now in a heated debate. He says I should text her now and ask her if I can call her. Then if she says yes and I call her and then ask her out to coffee. I tryed to tell my dad that it will look despret. He calls me a pu**y. call her tomorrow to say hi but don't talk for more than 10 minutes.
bluewolf17 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 call her tomorrow to say hi but don't talk for more than 10 minutes. And if she doesn't return your call, don't contact her again.
alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 And if she doesn't return your call, don't contact her again. indeed bw17
MyNameIsJonas Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 A girl I met on match asked for my number. She finally texted me yesterday and we had about 3 exhanges each before she said she would text me back later. My dad and I are now in a heated debate. He says I should text her now and ask her if I can call her. Then if she says yes and I call her and then ask her out to coffee. I tryed to tell my dad that it will look despret. He calls me a pu**y. Pretty sure the text to you was a sign for you to call her. Regardless, don't text her again. Call her and (don't ask, just call) if she screens, leave a vm saying hi and asking if she wants to grab a coffee/drink in the next few days (bonus points if you already have a day in mind and say it). And as the previous posters stated, if she doesn't call you back, write her off. I hate to be blunt but she could be gaming you. Be prepared for that possibility.
Author Lost-n-confused Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 Texted her.. she said to call... I called... We talked for like 40+ mins. Going to call her tomorrow to setup a time to meet.
meerkat stew Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Yay for dad! A wise man indeed. Always take the reins early on and keep complete control of the contacting and asking out process as it relates to your dating plan. Step up and get as opposed to sit back and watch.
Author Lost-n-confused Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 This is the first person Ive called and will meet that I met online. Her accent really threw me off but hey Ill give her a chance.
justagoodoleboy Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 I have a 'rule of two' rule i guess you could say... contact her once..wait a day or two..no response...try again for good measure...no repsonse. forget her!
Crazy Magnet Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Oh welcome to online dating. I'm still a noob at it myself, but it's OH so interesting. I should have taken it up as a hobby years ago. What about her accent threw you off?
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