kimflute26 Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 I met a guy this week on OKCupid and we hit it off very well. We've had a few long conversations, talked on the phone, and I really like him. But what does it mean if he's still making little edits to his online profile? Well... ok, maybe that's obvious. He's still looking at who else is out there, I've been sort of doing the same thing, but if he's making those little changes (and they are very small.... he just changed up a couple of his sentences) that doesn't mean he's not interested anymore (right?)... Oy, ok... so I guess the appropriate answer to that would be "Only he knows if he's interested... wait and see what happens." I think I'm just nervous because I like him.... . I'd be interested in hearing from more of you about your online dating experiences...
stevejohnson1976 Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 i dont think its an indictment on how interested he is in you. i'm dating 2 girls from online now...i would love to delete my account, but how can I be sure its going to work with one of them? I would LOVE it to delete it, but there is no guarantee that these will work. im sure he is thinking along the same lines. make sense?
Author kimflute26 Posted December 29, 2009 Author Posted December 29, 2009 To boogieboy: Oh trust me, I'm not. If it turns out he loses interest in me then I'll gladly move on (like I've done before). Just asking for some insight here steve: Yes, makes great sense. I just needed someone to say that... lol.
stevejohnson1976 Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 To boogieboy: Oh trust me, I'm not. If it turns out he loses interest in me then I'll gladly move on (like I've done before). Just asking for some insight here steve: Yes, makes great sense. I just needed someone to say that... lol. well, being active in online dating and a dude....i think you are safe here. he's just like you im sure...he wants it to work, but like boogie said, he (or you) shouldnt put all the eggs in 1 basket
Meaplus3 Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 I met a guy this week on OKCupid and we hit it off very well. We've had a few long conversations, talked on the phone, and I really like him. But what does it mean if he's still making little edits to his online profile? Well... ok, maybe that's obvious. He's still looking at who else is out there, I've been sort of doing the same thing, but if he's making those little changes (and they are very small.... he just changed up a couple of his sentences) that doesn't mean he's not interested anymore (right?)... Oy, ok... so I guess the appropriate answer to that would be "Only he knows if he's interested... wait and see what happens." I think I'm just nervous because I like him.... . I'd be interested in hearing from more of you about your online dating experiences... I can tell you this much and it's the honest to gods truth. You DON"T know the person until you meet them. You can have all the phone calls, chat's, texts and so forth that you want.. but until you meet IMO it's all pointless. If this guy is serious about you he will make a sincere effort to come to you and meet you IRL. If he stall's, and makes excuses.. he is not worth your time. Don't waste to much of your time unless you know for sure the guy is interested in you IRL. The net is NOT real life. Good luck. Mea:)
Lizzie60 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 I met a guy this week on OKCupid and we hit it off very well. We've had a few long conversations, talked on the phone, and I really like him. But what does it mean if he's still making little edits to his online profile? Well... ok, maybe that's obvious. He's still looking at who else is out there, I've been sort of doing the same thing, but if he's making those little changes (and they are very small.... he just changed up a couple of his sentences) that doesn't mean he's not interested anymore (right?)... Oy, ok... so I guess the appropriate answer to that would be "Only he knows if he's interested... wait and see what happens." I think I'm just nervous because I like him.... . I'd be interested in hearing from more of you about your online dating experiences... The bolded part means absolutely nothing... a lot of those guys are jerks, or better yet... losers ... who will 'cyberplay' women. They spend a loooot of time on the Internet.. because, in reality.. they can't do much with their lives.. so they try to 'fool' women to make them believe they are nice guys,... wannabe 'professionals' when in fact, they've never worked in the field, or simply drunk idiots or druggies ... Be careful... lots of losers out there.. they're constantly looking for another girl.. while pretending to be interested in one... I call them the 'wannabe casanova'... eeewwww Follow your gut feeling.. life is too short to waste your energy on idiots..
sagetalk Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 I can tell you this much and it's the honest to gods truth. You DON"T know the person until you meet them. You can have all the phone calls, chat's, texts and so forth that you want.. but until you meet IMO it's all pointless. If this guy is serious about you he will make a sincere effort to come to you and meet you IRL. This is great advice. When I'm talking to a girl online, I try to meet them soon unless they live really far away. It's a waste of time just talking to them too much before you meet. It's about chemistry and you won't know until you meet them.
Mary3 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 I can tell you this much and it's the honest to gods truth. You DON"T know the person until you meet them. You can have all the phone calls, chat's, texts and so forth that you want.. but until you meet IMO it's all pointless. If this guy is serious about you he will make a sincere effort to come to you and meet you IRL. If he stall's, and makes excuses.. he is not worth your time. Don't waste to much of your time unless you know for sure the guy is interested in you IRL. The net is NOT real life. Good luck. Mea:) Beauuuuuuuuuutifully Spoken ))
Mary3 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 The bolded part means absolutely nothing... a lot of those guys are jerks, or better yet... losers ... who will 'cyberplay' women. They spend a loooot of time on the Internet.. because, in reality.. they can't do much with their lives.. so they try to 'fool' women to make them believe they are nice guys,... wannabe 'professionals' when in fact, they've never worked in the field, or simply drunk idiots or druggies ... Be careful... lots of losers out there.. they're constantly looking for another girl.. while pretending to be interested in one... I call them the 'wannabe casanova'... eeewwww Follow your gut feeling.. life is too short to waste your energy on idiots..[/QUOTE] 2 Great Responses !! Back to back...
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