kimmi Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 I was talking tonight with a friend and I got off the phonr thinking about what I had said to her: I did nothing but call him down, He is a lying cheat that I have a feeling that he is trying to hold onto me. I'm on vacation and he had text me (left the phone with my daughter) she said that I was on Vacation in the Islands. He then would not stop texting her where what islands you talking about, get you autie to call me now, then apparently he called 4 times and I said she could text do not answer the phone. So here is losing his mind and all the while my daughter is getting scared. My sister calls me to inform me about this and I called him and ripped him a new a$$. He claims that he never got the message.. another lie.. I'm so mad right now because I still have that erge to contact him. (lI have never been able to stop calling and text) Really I want this to stop !! But I do not know how to stop it. he is a cheat, lier he uses everyone and my family and friend have all said he is poison to you, stop. but GRRR t is hard. I have signed up for latin dance and hip hop, I work full time and have a daughter at home that is special needs. I am a busy person but when I get this erge to contact him I do not even want to work. OMG I can not handle this ... I can't stand him!!!
nobmagnet Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 change your number honey. Or block him. The urge is normal..........hell its hard not to but he winds you up all the time if you speak/ text him. Stop torchering yourself. He sounds like a worm. Im so glad you are out there doing stuff because that shows him you are not sitting at home crying. That must sting his lying bum!! please block him if you can. It will help you stop getting so p*ssed with him. good luck with the dancing...........i have two left feet and all the rythum of a scotch egg! xx
GrayClouds Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 I was talking tonight with a friend and I got off the phonr thinking about what I had said to her: I did nothing but call him down, He is a lying cheat that I have a feeling that he is trying to hold onto me. I'm on vacation and he had text me (left the phone with my daughter) she said that I was on Vacation in the Islands. He then would not stop texting her where what islands you talking about, get you autie to call me now, then apparently he called 4 times and I said she could text do not answer the phone. So here is losing his mind and all the while my daughter is getting scared. My sister calls me to inform me about this and I called him and ripped him a new a$$. He claims that he never got the message.. another lie.. I'm so mad right now because I still have that erge to contact him. (lI have never been able to stop calling and text) Really I want this to stop !! But I do not know how to stop it. he is a cheat, lier he uses everyone and my family and friend have all said he is poison to you, stop. but GRRR t is hard. I have signed up for latin dance and hip hop, I work full time and have a daughter at home that is special needs. I am a busy person but when I get this erge to contact him I do not even want to work. OMG I can not handle this ... I can't stand him!!! In fact you are handling it quite well; "up for latin dance and hip hop, I work full time and have a daughter at home that is special needs". You have taken some really good fist steps and whould be proud of yourself. Rome was not built in a day, in fact on of the last things that was built was a sewer system. It was not a great system, kind of slow but eventually it did move the crap out. Just like what you are doing your building a system and slowly get that piece of crap out of your life. You did some good first steps, now it is time to do the next pieve of brick work, implementing some really NC, read and reread these: The No Contact Guide So you want a second chance? .
Recommended Posts