daveoats Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 My girlfriend and I are are going through dire relationship problems with our long distnce relationship , mostly about not providing enough attention/love over thedistance, her not likeing long distance, and me not changing. I am currently visiting overseas on my holidays with her, and after arguing half of the time, nearly splitting up, and her seeming to sabotage our relationship(she admits this) by being bitter, and bitchy, which hasnt been very conducive to reclaiming our closeness. I was attempting to find something for her and stumbeled across a file describing a situation four months ago where she as kissed by some dude, and returned the kiss. I didnt set out to snoop but I still did, which is bad. If you really thinki about it, its like the kiss she didnt really set out to do it but did. ha i am now unsure what to do... and seeing we are in strife already, im not sure if and how I should bring this up with my woman, and suggestions? im not sure whether to let it slide, call her out on it, or throw a wobbly? I'm hurt of couse, im usually a very collected person, so I know that it might not be wise to bring this up now with all the other ****, but I kinda want her to admit it. I also fear that this might be actually the point where it all falls apart - a situation I would like to avoid - I think . Any sugegstions/perspectives/actions/attitudes that would be best to adopt (or avoid!) that you have, I would really appreciate in this time of struggle. Thanks
Back2dabasics Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 i was in a LDR for more than 2 years. if the love real and true, it will prevail. if it weakens and dies, it will fail. IMO, i would dump the chick. one, because she's a liar. two, because now you gonna have trust issues and insecurity. you even said she admited to trying to sabotage the relationship. it seems she doesn't care. but do what your heart and mind tells you. don't let love blind you. same way it blinded it me and i realized it f-cked me up in the end. good luck bro
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