Patricia09 Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 I posted before, he broke up with me after 2 years saying he felt something was missing that couldnt be fixed. That was 2 weeks ago I tried no contact but ended up drunkenly texting him a few times So I texted asking if we could meet to talk as the reason he gave was not enough for me. He said yes so were are going to meet. I need some advice on how to handle this, I really miss him and want him back but I think he has moved on. Patricia
lostboyuk Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Hey Patricia I'm no expert and new on here and you'll find loads of different advice on how to deal with this. My recent experience I learned that you have to go with what you feel is right. Many posts tell you to be cool and not to beg, etc. In my case I completely fell apart whenever I saw my GF, despite trying not to! The funny thing for me was that if I hadn't she since told me she wouldn't have known how I felt about her, so for me opening up was right. I posted on here earlier today saying that I had to let her know because if I didn't I knew I'd regret it forever! My opinion is this, early on in a breakup make sure you get it all out and tell them everything you feel (if possible without water streaming from your eyes!) at the very least you have tried, they will know and have something to think about. If it doesn't do any good move onto NC and look after yourself. Hope this helps, my thoughts are with you.
gaudi Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 If you think he has moved on, then you can use this opportunity to find out if it's true, If he has, then you should do the same..........if not, then you guys have things to discuss.....good luck x
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