mizundastud Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 (edited) Hello everyone I am new to the this forum and joined because I'm in a very confused state right now. I hope to be of help and be helped by others using this site, Here is my story: Its been a year since me and the love of my life have been broken up. I tried so desperately to get over him and nothing is working. We were in an on and off relationship for 4 years and this is the first time it really seems final. I am the one who broke it off with him because we kept having the same reoccurring issues that were causing both of us to be unhappy. Feeling like enough was enough and nothing was ever going to change between us I felt like maybe we should move on and start fresh with other people. Not to long after I made that decision and broke it off I wanted him back. So I tried desperately for months to convince him to come back and we should work it out. His response for months was to give it some time and be patient, but I felt like he was growing apart from me. Then I found out that he had gotten a girl pregnant which he told me was an accident and didn't mean anything. Still in love with him I felt like I shouldn't let that stop me from being with the man I love, until obvious situations started showing me he was in a relationship with this girl. We had been trying to have a baby together so I knew this baby would make things different from all the other times we've broken up. Trying to accept all of this and move on I am now currently in a relationship and MISERABLE I am still in love with my EX and feeling really lost as he moves on with his life....I spend a lot of time thinking about him and feeling very resentful with a bunch of unanswered questions... I would appreciate any sincere advice.... Edited December 28, 2009 by mizundastud
nobmagnet Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Im so sorry. it might be the baby. you both wanted one together and it didnt happen. He moves on and BAM. My best mate in the world had this problem too IVF (she went tho hell unsuccessfully) adoption (he wasnt interested) she left. He met someone new and with in what seemed no time(6 months) he was going to be a dad. Crushed and shattered. I feel for you. however it wasnt working was it?? you didnt get on great?? you have a new chap unless he is a complete knob cherish him, explain your pain if you can (honesty in relationship is very inportant) im sorry love xx
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