Thebob Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 I been NC since september, and honestly I can say every day that goes by you realize how much more you don't need your ex within your life. Of course you have the happy memories but when time goes by you'll realize that they dont have an emotional connection anymore. Just that you were lucky enough to experience these moments. I feel great now, and since I been focused on another girl my ex is barely in my mind and it's wonderful. It's just funny how I thought I needed her and wanted her, but now I realized that I am never taking her back if she ever wanted me back I wouldn't accept cause were not compatible. So tough it out you Nc'ers cause it gets easier and you'll realize in the end when it's all finished that you really don't need to be beating up on yourself. Just go out have fun and do whatever it takes to get your ex off your mind. Thebob
nobmagnet Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 yep! great to hear. every day that goes by gets better for me too Imagine on here propmpted a very happy memory with my ex yesterday and I thought YEAH we had some fun..........but i wont go back! nice feeling and I dont have a chap to take my mind off it..........errr well only my penfreind! hahahah well done good post xx
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