broken_inside Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 So I have been with my love for 4 years, we had one hell of a fight and I found myself traveling to the other side of the world, now I have been gone 4months and will be returning in like 6 weeks. We lived together since we got together so this is our first time apart. At first we would talk all the time, in the last few weeks I have had the following said to me : I consider myself single... I dont know if I want to be in a relationship.... Can we just see each other and start again... I dont want to live with you.... Iv changed... You`ve changed..... My responce to this was to say : I want you to be happy even if its without me so Im not coming back. With that I got a phone call...crying...upset that I had said that. And for some reason I have agreed to go back, live on my own and start "seeing" each other again! Am I crazy? My hearts breaking and I dont know what to do. I havent booked a flight yet.......should I?
Rollercoasterr Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Yes, you are crazy. He has treated you like dirt since you've been gone. You can almost guarantee that he's been out on dates with other girls or maybe even still seeing a few of them. In my honest opinion when things happen like this so early into an LDR there's cheating going on. Some people can't handle an LDR, some people can. He doesn't seem to be one of them. Even though your LDR is coming to a close in 6 weeks I think the damage has already been done. For him to say the things he said to you proves that he doesn't love you like you thought. I wouldn't book that flight. I wouldn't even talk to him again. Talking when you've got a broken heart is the worst thing for you. I am very very sorry that you're going through this, however. I know how much it hurts. My fiance and I once had a very nasty breakup. I'm just now, 4 years later getting over it completely. Hugs to you.
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