almostthere Posted December 22, 2003 Posted December 22, 2003 I haven't posted in awhile...so here's a quick update...im not dating the last person I was asking questions about. we broke up end of Oct. So...now te new thing. This is the exact opposite...lol. NEVER a dull moment. OK...Ive been dating someone for a month now. At two weeks he starts telling me that he's developing feelings for me. Asking me all the time how do I REALLY feel about him. He is convinced that I must be starting to love him. I don't go that fast. I don't develope feelings for people anymore then I care. I dont fall inlove easily...but thats because I havent met the right person yet. This guy is the one guy every woman would want...seriously. He is very well manner and very kind, considerate, wont let me pay for anything, opens all my doors. pumps my gas...so on and so forth. A dream guy. But he has this HUGE flaw of assuming that I love him even though every time he asks me if I love him I say no. Cleary. I am getting to the point of running. I don't want a "serious" relationship. I want to date someone exclusively but Im not done to settle down and have someone in my life ALL the time. If that makes sense. Anyway, I want to tell him that I need for him to back off a little on the feelings thing or he's gonna lose me. But I dont know how to say it nicely and still get my point accross. Im not feeling it with him yet. and if he doesnt stop I wont. He already talking about moving in, wants to spend all of Christmas together and New Years. I already have plans for New Years and its with my family and Im not ready for them to meet him because I dont think this will last. Im so confused. the last thing I want to do is hurt him.But i think i will either way...by telling him this or just breaking up. Any advice?
moimeme Posted December 22, 2003 Posted December 22, 2003 Tell him exactly what you told us. Don't delay.
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