betamanlet Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 I'm going to read books, and try the approach where you can still be a nice guy, yet still get women. Reading a book The Nice Guy's Guide to Gettting Girls.. I'll give this approach, and similar ones a shot, before even thinking of resorting to the player/game type approaches. Oh, also going to ride 15 miles a day on my exercise bike.
aerogurl87 Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 I'm going to try to actively continue to take things one day at a time with my boyfriend instead of projecting things into the future. But sometimes a little daydream (like the one I had the other day of possibly buying a dog together) isn't so bad I guess.
scenester Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 To meet a girl and have a delightful relationship with her. That simple. Been in a rut lately...
jw90063 Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 I'm going to read books, and try the approach where you can still be a nice guy, yet still get women. Reading a book The Nice Guy's Guide to Gettting Girls.. I'll give this approach, and similar ones a shot, before even thinking of resorting to the player/game type approaches. Oh, also going to ride 15 miles a day on my exercise bike. My New Years dating resolution is to jump in the sack with as many men as possible, so I can identify with society better, as well as decrease my chances of getting hounded over my personal preferences when spoken for. I really don't know what my New Years dating resolution would be. Probably try to choose better places to meet decent guys, and stay away from sorry dating sites-if that's even possible. By the way, Plenty of Fish.com is all that I thought it would be.....
Hot Carl Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 My New Years dating resolution is to jump in the sack with as many men as possible, so I can identify with society better, as well as decrease my chances of getting hounded over my personal preferences when spoken for. That's the same resolution you made last year.
Vasto_Lorde Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Mine is to exit the dating scene all together. My personality is not suited for it especially in the DC/MD/VA metropolitan area.
alphamale Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 What are your new years dating resolutions? . to not date whacko nut-jobs
Author betamanlet Posted December 28, 2009 Author Posted December 28, 2009 Mine is to exit the dating scene all together. My personality is not suited for it especially in the DC/MD/VA metropolitan area. I think that was my resolution last year, and I didn't have a single date this year. What are your views of your personality and that why it's not suited for the DC area. I live here as well, but am curious of your views on this.
MyNameIsJonas Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Volunteer through my church and my county's food assistance center and meet people through that.
cognac Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 My goal is simply to get laid. I haven't touched a warm damp hole since the summer and am jonesin' for it as of late. Hopefully new years day alcoholic women will be available to fulfill my quest when I go out to the bars thursday night, if not I'm just going to get an escort.
alphamale Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Hopefully new years day alcoholic women will be available to fulfill my quest when I go out to the bars thursday night, ... don't count on it
MyNameIsJonas Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 don't count on it Eh, halloween and nye seem to be the two nights of the year where the number of random bar hookups increase substantially.
Vasto_Lorde Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 I think that was my resolution last year, and I didn't have a single date this year. What are your views of your personality and that why it's not suited for the DC area. I live here as well, but am curious of your views on this. I think Alphamale and skydiveaddict have covered most of it but I'll give you a brief summary. I'm not an Alpha by any stretch of the imagination. If anything, I consider myself a very laid back apathetic individualist. In my experience dating in DC, I've found that I've often been tagged as a "nice guy". Like others on this board have said, being that kind of guy is not a good thing especially if you want to have success in dating especially in DC due to the high concentration of very well off independent single women. In my experience, the women I've dated were looking for a guy who could keep them in check, whatever that means. I'm not that type of person. I believe everyone should be able to keep themselves in check. So it came down to a very simple choice really, which was change your belief and approach to succeed or continue as you are and get constantly get shot down. I choice neither. I made up my mind to just get out of the dating scene fully. I'm not willing to change who I am to please any body so I guess you can say I've made my own bed and I'm going to have a long sleep in it. I should add that I'm a black male and my experiences have been limited to professional black females. I just never had the opportunity to expand my dating pool not for lack of trying. Hope that helps betamale.
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