skydiveaddict Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 It's the forum owners. They start those threads to keep the site traffic high, because nice guys are suckers for these threads, and there are millions of lonely ones out there. The site traffic numbers translate into big $$. The guys that own the forum are probably on the beach right now, counting their money, being mean to some cute women, and getting ready for a big night. lmfao! probably right Carl
stillafool Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 I have a theory that women are only attracted to jerks. Nice guys are just always going to have a hard time getting women. Any thoughts on this? What is your definition of a nice guy? What is your definition of a jerk?
skydiveaddict Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 What is your definition of a nice guy? What is your definition of a jerk? nice guy: shy insecure beta unsuccessful w/ women jerk: outgoing ,funny, "life of the party" sort gets laid frequently
shadowplay Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 there is a third category called "normal guy" who alternates between jerk and nice. this is where you want to be. these guys get the most chicks. Agreed. ------------------
stillafool Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 nice guy: shy insecure beta unsuccessful w/ women jerk: outgoing ,funny, "life of the party" sort gets laid frequently I think this is total nonsense. There are gorgeous shy guys who don't have to open their mouth and women are all over them. As a matter of fact most women I know don't like guys who are loud, life of the party types. They seem to be the more insecure guys. Strong silent type are sexier to me. More mystery. Guys who talk too much remind me of females.
Stung Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 ...the most successful guys are 100% a..holes All this sound and fury about nice guys vs. *******s is pointless so long as people are talking at cross-purposes. One definition of successful is a man in a happy, healthy, meaningful long-term relationship with a quality woman, getting good sex and sharing emotional support. The nice guy tends to end up with this definition of success, as long as he is really a nice guy and not a whinging, manipulative self-proclaimed "nice" guy. Another definition of successful is a man who gets lots of anonymous or short-term tail, often from drunk women, women with low-self esteem, or high-drama women with other emotional problems. Usually the ******* gets these. (Then he wonders why women are crazy ). And then of course as mentioned there are the legions of men/women/relationships that fall somewhere in between...
Author Hot Carl Posted December 28, 2009 Author Posted December 28, 2009 Ok, from here forward, I want everyone to take this thread seriously. We're going to get this nice guy/jerk thing nailed down once and for all.
betamanlet Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Ok, from here forward, I want everyone to take this thread seriously. We're going to get this nice guy/jerk thing nailed down once and for all. Women love drama. Nice guys provide no drama, hence are boring to women. Bad boys provide drama, hence why women love them. It's really that simple.
Pyro Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Women love drama. Nice guys provide no drama, hence are boring to women. Bad boys provide drama, hence why women little insecure girls love them. It's really that simple. Corrected your post.
betamanlet Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Corrected your post. That's probably quite accurate, but unfortunately most women are that way. Only a small minority don't desire drama. There are not enough for the guys who don't want a drama filled relationship.
MeganDoll Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Women love drama. Nice guys provide no drama, hence are boring to women. Bad boys provide drama, hence why women love them. It's really that simple. We do like what u call "drama" becasue it shows passion and we need that in a relationship instead of the boring everyday ho hum guy who has no spontaniety One day my boyfriend and i had a drag out fight[verbally] it was pretty heated,next tihng i know my boyfriends opens the door slams me against the wall rips of my clothes violently and pounds me into submission until i couldnt take it and was passed out:love:
Woggle Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 We do like what u call "drama" becasue it shows passion and we need that in a relationship instead of the boring everyday ho hum guy who has no spontaniety One day my boyfriend and i had a drag out fight[verbally] it was pretty heated,next tihng i know my boyfriends opens the door slams me against the wall rips of my clothes violently and pounds me into submission until i couldnt take it and was passed out:love: Isn't that called rape?
betamanlet Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Isn't that called rape? Alpha males take that risk. Plenty of women like to be "taken".
MeganDoll Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Isn't that called rape? No because i wanted it
Woggle Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Alpha males take that risk. Plenty of women like to be "taken". I am far from a doormat but I am not trying to go to prison on a rape charge either so if a woman wants me to rape her I am not her man. I like my freedom and I am not risking it in order to give an unstable woman what she calls passion.
MeganDoll Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Alpha males take that risk. Plenty of women like to be "taken". Every women does We want to be overpowered and manhandled and pounded till we cant take it:love:
Zeegagge Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Sometimes I piss girls I'm dating off to just to give them some drama. Making out with other girls in front of them really keeps them coming back for more.
Woggle Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Every women does We want to be overpowered and manhandled and pounded till we cant take it:love: Were you ever in the Jersey Shore area and did you have a fling with a man in his mid to late 20s a few years ago? You sound exactly like a woman I had a FWB relationship.
betamanlet Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 I am far from a doormat but I am not trying to go to prison on a rape charge either so if a woman wants me to rape her I am not her man. I like my freedom and I am not risking it in order to give an unstable woman what she calls passion. i agree 100%. that is part of drama i cannot tolerate
Okeydokey Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 The self-proclaimed "nice guys" are usually dudes who get no play and resent the guys who do (identified as jerks by self proclaimed nice guy) and decide that the reason they (self proclaimed nice guy) are not is because they are nice guys. In my experience, the really nice guys have no problem meeting women and having relationships and don't go around telling everyone that they are a nice guy who gets no action because women only like jerks.
Vasto_Lorde Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 The self-proclaimed "nice guys" are usually dudes who get no play and resent the guys who do (identified as jerks by self proclaimed nice guy) and decide that the reason they (self proclaimed nice guy) are not is because they are nice guys. In my experience, the really nice guys have no problem meeting women and having relationships and don't go around telling everyone that they are a nice guy who gets no action because women only like jerks. This nice guy crap is really stupid to be honest. While there are some guys who self identify as nice, and ladies be generally wary of them, there are other guys who have this label of "nice guy" constantly thrown at them. These labels are really meaningless when you take a deeper look though.
lord alfred douglas Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Ive been meaning to start a thread about this
Author Hot Carl Posted December 28, 2009 Author Posted December 28, 2009 It couldn't hurt. We could really use one on penis size though.
Vasto_Lorde Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 It couldn't hurt. We could really use one on penis size though. That's funny Carl:laugh:
Madelf Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Alpha males take that risk. Plenty of women like to be "taken". Perhaps. It's often the stuff of fantasies that tend to heighten the passion. And if the man has an erection then that's great too....
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