MinTea Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 I generally don't dream much. If I do, I usually don't remember them, unless it's in the morning just before I get up. I've been spending time with my family and staying with my parents for a few weeks. I don't really like my bed here so I spend much of the night tossing and turning until I finally fall asleep in the early morning. Needless to say I've been sleeping in a lot the past few days. So I've been remembering my dreams, and they're revolving around my ex. The first dream of him since our break two months ago involves me sending him a text saying along the lines of "I miss you. Do you miss me?" (I have NOT done this in real life nor do I intend to) His reply was a simple "No." Boy, my subconscious is mean to me! lol In the next dream, I was hanging out with some friends. They were sitting on the floor and I was laying at the end of a large bed and we were all watching TV. My ex was also on the bed but up by the pillows. Eventually he crawled over to me and wrapped his arms around me. I looked at him with confusion and he continued to watch TV with me in his arms as if we were still dating and this was a natural gesture. I slid away and went to my friends to talk about it and they all told me that he broke my heart and I shouldn't fall for it. And for some reason... EVERYONE was in there underwear. lol. I swear this was not a sexual dream! The most recent dream that I had this morning involved him sending me a text saying, "I love you and I wish I knew if you loved me too." These dreams aren't really hurting me at all, they just cause me to reflect. Just wondering if any of you get crazy dreams like these and if you'd like to share.
xoxo88 Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 I had dreams like that too after the break up. I dreamed of us being together, dreamed of him with his new girlfriend and still wanting to be with me, bla bla. Psychologically, dreams reflect our most hidden or conscious wishes, fears, doubts. I believe that's true because what was happening in my dreams was a reflection of how i felt at that time: when i was mad at him i dreamed about him wanting me back andd me rejecting him, when i was just desperate to get back together i dreamed of us being together, etc.
teanoranges Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 I haven't dreamt of him in a good while... part of me wishes I would, just so I could see him again. lol.
knime32 Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 I've been having reoccuring dreams about my ex as well. We broke up about a month ago and the dreams didn't start until about a week and a half ago. Most of my dreams revolve around us talking about our relationship and why it ended and then coming to conclusions. In all of them, except for one, he's coming back to me and regreting his decision. My most recent, last night, I dreamed I was training for a marathon ( I don't even run) and he was on my road running as well. He came up behind me and hugged and said that he regretted his decision and wanted to know if I still loved him. I told him I didn't know if I could forgive him or trust him with my heart again and he said he would do anything he could to prove his love for me. I told him I was talking to a few people and he got really upset and started crying. The whole dream was very confusing to me and it ended with us having a very passionate kiss. I know our dreams reflect our deep inner thoughts, I just wish that mine would move on. Deep down I really do want him back, but I know I can't move forward with that line of thinking. I don't understand why these dreams just suddenly started happening. My ex and I have broken up before, but were never apart for this long, maybe that's why the dreams have started coming. I'm glad I'm not the only one having these dreams. I thought I had something wrong with me!
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