Left in a Lurch Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 It gets old, fast. We've been bombarded by misogyny now for so long, that some of us are totally fed up with it. Quit'cher whining and do something about your love life. It will make you a happier person. Half the whining in here is about women, the other half is about men. Quit being so sensitive and let people have opinions without trying to label them. Hell, this thread was about why are some men so insecure. If you don't want to hear why, don't read the thread or at least respect the fact that maybe what the men mention as possible reasons might be based on inside knowledge you'll never get by yourself. Women attacking men because they give an honest response and yet don't want to accept that they men may have a point is getting old too.
threebyfate Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 Half the whining in here is about women, the other half is about men. Quit being so sensitive and let people have opinions without trying to label them. Hell, this thread was about why are some men so insecure. If you don't want to hear why, don't read the thread or at least respect the fact that maybe what the men mention as possible reasons might be based on inside knowledge you'll never get by yourself. Women attacking men because they give an honest response and yet don't want to accept that they men may have a point is getting old too.The interesting part about all this was that I wasn't even talking about your original post but if you feel you fit the bill, who am I to argue about it?
Left in a Lurch Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 "The interesting part about all this was that I wasn't even talking about your original post but if you feel you fit the bill, who am I to argue about it? :laugh:" Nobody.
Left in a Lurch Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 Sorry, that was mean but I couldn't help it. Nobody.
threebyfate Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 Not to worry. That kind of thing doesn't bother me. I have to have respect for someone, before it bothers me.
InspiredbyYou Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 Quit being so sensitive and let people have opinions without trying to label them. Seriously!! I agree with your post Chatroomhero in how men do not get any sort of reassurance at all from their friends, it is very different for men. It is emotionally a lot harder for men in society and I can understand how men do not have a support system therefore they have no outlet for their insecurities. Men have to fend alone emotionally speaking. Women expect men to be self assured, to not have any insecurities to be tough to be super heroes practically. Yet all women do is whine and whine to their entire support system. It's easy to stand on a hill top and look down below. I also agree with everything Annie1707 said, was going to say the exact same thing. OP you did say that you did not find your guy attractive, and I DO NOT agree with your new guy's assessment that your ex is "stupid". He is far from stupid, and the reason he asked for reassurance is because he more than likely sensed you were not into him the way he would want you to be into him.
thegreatmoose Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 Some pretty assumptive, bitter boys brigade posts about women in general, one more time. Where did you get that from? Relationships are tough for many people to find and it's not a surprise that many men (and women) are insecure for hundreds of reasons. Most people have many "flaws" and if people keep getting rejected for one of these, it is not a surprise that they sometimes get insecure.
PJKino Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Seriously!! I agree with your post Chatroomhero in how men do not get any sort of reassurance at all from their friends, it is very different for men. It is emotionally a lot harder for men in society and I can understand how men do not have a support system therefore they have no outlet for their insecurities. Men have to fend alone emotionally speaking. Women expect men to be self assured, to not have any insecurities to be tough to be super heroes practically. Yet all women do is whine and whine to their entire support system. It's easy to stand on a hill top and look down below. I also agree with everything Annie1707 said, was going to say the exact same thing. OP you did say that you did not find your guy attractive, and I DO NOT agree with your new guy's assessment that your ex is "stupid". He is far from stupid, and the reason he asked for reassurance is because he more than likely sensed you were not into him the way he would want you to be into him. Thank you a women who understands Men arent inhuman and avoid of emotions worries and fears
yah Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 i dont know of any guys that has asked that question before. maybe try to make your guy feel more secure so they have no reason to ask...
thegreatmoose Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Seriously!! I agree with your post Chatroomhero in how men do not get any sort of reassurance at all from their friends, it is very different for men. It is emotionally a lot harder for men in society and I can understand how men do not have a support system therefore they have no outlet for their insecurities. Men have to fend alone emotionally speaking. Women expect men to be self assured, to not have any insecurities to be tough to be super heroes practically. Yet all women do is whine and whine to their entire support system. It's easy to stand on a hill top and look down below. I also agree with everything Annie1707 said, was going to say the exact same thing. OP you did say that you did not find your guy attractive, and I DO NOT agree with your new guy's assessment that your ex is "stupid". He is far from stupid, and the reason he asked for reassurance is because he more than likely sensed you were not into him the way he would want you to be into him. Completely agree. Thank you a women who understands Men arent inhuman and avoid of emotions worries and fears I'm actually finding that quite a few women agree. Not all of course, based on this thread.
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