Author alphamale Posted December 29, 2009 Author Posted December 29, 2009 phew! haven't heard from her in 48 hours, i think i'm free
H1N1 Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 Yeah, total no-contact is the way to go. Your instincts about calling her (i.e. a bad idea) were dead on, too. I had an experience like that and when I called to give her the bad news over the phone, she just flipped out and confirmed all of my worst suspicions (that she was nuts). They'll eventually get the message.
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 OH NOZ!!! the psycho called me again at 9pm. i'm scared to listen to teh message. why won't she leave me alone? *shivers*
Art_Critic Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 OH NOZ!!! the psycho called me again at 9pm. i'm scared to listen to teh message. why won't she leave me alone? *shivers* Send me her phone number Alpha.. I'll call her for you
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 Send me her phone number Alpha.. I'll call her for you this whacko has shaken me to the core. i need to find my spine and put an end to this
Art_Critic Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 this whacko has shaken me to the core. i need to find my spine and put an end to this Down a shot of Jack- neat and call her.
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 Down a shot of Jack- neat and call her. dude this chick is totally creeping me out
Citizen Erased Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 dude this chick is totally creeping me out Does she know where you live?
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 Does she know where you live? thank god, no
edward-e Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Does she know where you live? no but i do!!!! muahahaha!
Art_Critic Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 dude this chick is totally creeping me out Well.. at least you know that it isn't Ariadne.. she is out of the country.. so your safe Alpha.. call her back and aske her to stop calling you...
deux ex machina Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Oh, snap. Not to say we didn't tell you so. What does the message say?
Art_Critic Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 What does the message say? She loves him ?
edward-e Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 She loves him ? yeah she does...she loves him this much
deux ex machina Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 She loves him ? I will not be ignored! ---> ...
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 Alpha.. call her back and aske her to stop calling you... i was hoping she would go away by herself but apparently not, i'll call her wed What does the message say? to scared to listen to it
Art_Critic Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 What does the message say? I'm watching you !!!!!!!
deux ex machina Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 ...to scared to listen to it Just gather up the courage. Do it now! Before you have a chance to change your mind. It's just a voice on a phone. She can't reach out and touch you through a phone - I don't care what the old jingles say. I'm watching you !!!!!!! Every single day Every word you say Every game you play Every night and day...
tkgirl Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 i was hoping she would go away by herself but apparently not, i'll call her wed to scared to listen to it I'm dying to know what she said! actually just delete it without listening to it.. you don't care what she has to say, you just want her to leave you alone. Also, I say don't call her... she left you alone for 48 since her last call.... next time it will be longer 'til she calls you again.. and longer for the time after that... etc etc. Eventually she will go away. I seriously think that's how you have to deal with people like this... if you give them zero attention they will finally want to find someone else who will.. then it's their problem and not yours!
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 I'm dying to know what she said! thank god it was a hang up message, nothing said, just a click. phew!
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 i think if i call her tomorrow to tell her to stop calling me it will just egg her on. i'm going to txt her instead and tell her to stop contacting me. that way there will be documentation if i have to go to the police or if she kills me.
deux ex machina Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 i think if i call her tomorrow to tell her to stop calling me it will just egg her on. Yes, I think you're right. I wouldn't call. i'm going to txt her instead and tell her to stop contacting me. that way there will be documentation if i have to go to the police or if she kills me. If you're going that route, try to make it short, unambiguous - clear, and to the point. Then, fin. Thing is, if she just doesn't understand yet - then the text may help her get it. If she doesn't get it, then she has just learned that the price of evoking a response from you is what...6 phone calls + one emergency call + a hang up? This is why after making that text, you can happily disappear. I am really glad she doesn't know where you live.
Hot Carl Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 I think you've heard the last from her. The fact that she didn't say anything on the voicemail means that was her last try. The text isn't necessary.
Citizen Erased Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 I think you've heard the last from her. The fact that she didn't say anything on the voicemail means that was her last try. The text isn't necessary. Oh I agree with Hot Carl, he's so wise. Your troubles are behind you alpha...unless she's standing there. Then you're a little screwed.
Angel1111 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 I don't think this will stop until you tell her to stop. I don't think she's dangerous, though. She's just one of those persistent females who can't take a hint.
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