Lishy Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Did you call her back and tell her you missed her too? OMG imagine if she knew you dedicated a 19 page thread bout her at a love advise site? Oooo that would be interesting!
littlewhiterose Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Alphamale, I feel for you. I'm going thru the same thing... yet another cycle of a nut-job pestering me. It's not easy to handle. I'm starting to think that the down time when you don't hear from them, is actually their brainstorming session on what 'plan' they should "try" next. And to top it off, a second guy is showing the same tendencies. I shut down my FB and he got my personal email address from an acquaintance (in common) that I went to high school with and wanted to "chat". We were never friends on FB. It's only funny til it happens to you. *ssssshhhuuuddderrr*
Author alphamale Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 Did you call her back and tell her you missed her too? NO, I'm in NC It's only funny til it happens to you. *ssssshhhuuuddderrr* indeed lwr
tkgirl Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Arg the psycho called me again and left a lovey-dovey message about how she misses me oh no, I had a feeling she wasn't gone for good yet.. you did go 96 hours though! keep ignoring her... next time it will be longer... 'til she finally vanishes for good. ugh... I know this isn't fun but try not to let her freak you out too much.
Author alphamale Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 ugh... I know this isn't fun but try not to let her freak you out too much. i''m at my wits end tkgirl...every time my cell rings i want to cower under the bed. i can't eat or sleep and i've lost 5 lbs in the last couple weeks
Citizen Erased Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 i''m at my wits end tkgirl...every time my cell rings i want to cower under the bed. i can't eat or sleep and i've lost 5 lbs in the last couple weeks Dude. They're just phone calls.
Author alphamale Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 Dude. They're just phone calls. from a psychotic woman who's not grounded in reality oh god maybe i'll go and have sex with her and get it over with....then she'll never call me again
SOLACEMENT Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 from a psychotic woman who's not grounded in reality oh god maybe i'll go and have sex with her and get it over with....then she'll never call me again sounds like a plan
tkgirl Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 i''m at my wits end tkgirl...every time my cell rings i want to cower under the bed. i can't eat or sleep and i've lost 5 lbs in the last couple weeks wow... I need a stalker, my diet isn't going as good. from a psychotic woman who's not grounded in reality oh god maybe i'll go and have sex with her and get it over with....then she'll never call me again why? you can't be that bad in bed! oh alpha... seriously, don't let this girl wear you down... that could be what she wants... maybe it worked for her in the past although I can't imagine it would have...
Art_Critic Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 and i've lost 5 lbs in the last couple weeks You're complaining.. Wasn't losing weight on your New Year Resolution List ? At the very least she is helping you keep your resolutions...
Art_Critic Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Arg the psycho called me again and left a lovey-dovey message about how she misses me Oh.. I didn't see this.. Sorry Alpha.. Sounds like you might want to talk to the police...
littlewhiterose Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 oh god maybe i'll go and have sex with her and get it over with....then she'll never call me again OMG Alpha, could you handle that? she'd really never stop calling you. Sex can bring emotional ties. She's showing you she's emotionally OVER-invested BEFORE you've even had sex...unless there's something I missed?
Author alphamale Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 hahaha she just called me again and left some unintelligible voicmail. i think i'm gonna crack. hahahaha *starts to sob*
CarrieT Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 hahaha she just called me again and left some unintelligible voicmail. i think i'm gonna crack. hahahaha *starts to sob* Why are you listening? Just delete, silly boy. You don't need to know what is being said if you are going NC.
littlewhiterose Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Better yet- Change your number. If this were to escalate and you needed to contact the authorities, at some point- even they would question why you haven't made a move in some direction towards twarting her. Do something!
Author alphamale Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 Better yet- Change your number. If this were to escalate and you needed to contact the authorities, at some point- even they would question why you haven't made a move in some direction towards twarting her. Do something! its not that bad yet. hopefully she'll just go away like a large pimple. if it continues for a long period of time then i'll have to take some action but right now its really more sad/funny than anything
tkgirl Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 hahaha she just called me again and left some unintelligible voicmail. i think i'm gonna crack. hahahaha *starts to sob* sorry but this made me LOL! Better yet- Change your number. If this were to escalate and you needed to contact the authorities, at some point- even they would question why you haven't made a move in some direction towards twarting her. Do something! yeah, do this ASAP.... I know you don't want to but that might be the only way you will get any peace.
Author alphamale Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 sorry but this made me LOL! a wayward lonely psychotic female has brought alphamale to his knees....i didn't think it could happen
tkgirl Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 a wayward lonely psychotic female has brought alphamale to his knees....i didn't think it could happen hmmmm... that's some useful information you just gave us women... how to get an alphamale to crack!
deux ex machina Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 oh no, I had a feeling she wasn't gone for good yet.. you did go 96 hours though! keep ignoring her... next time it will be longer... 'til she finally vanishes for good. ugh... I know this isn't fun but try not to let her freak you out too much. Good advice. I think you have to sweat it out, alpha. I know it's hard, because there's nothing you can do but wait and see what happens (unless you want to change your number right now, ect...).
whichwayisup Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 a wayward lonely psychotic female has brought alphamale to his knees....i didn't think it could happen And you aren't even getting head out of it either.. Ok, seriously bro, if she keeps bugging you in the next week, go to the Cop Shop and file a complaint. I haven't read the whole thread, but obviously she knows there's no "you and her", like you've told her I'm not interested ... Does she know where you live? Work? I certainly hope not.. Stay safe and keep intouch, you have my email.
Author alphamale Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 And you aren't even getting head out of it either.. no, we went out twice and i didn't even touch her Does she know where you live? Work? ... nope
whichwayisup Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Wow, I just got caught up. This really is scary. She has a screw loose for sure.. Good thing is, she went like 48+ hours without contacting you, so that's good. Means she's starting to get the hint - though she did call and say she misses you (sorry but how the heck does one MISS another when she doesn't even KNOW YOU) W..T...F... How well do you know the mutual aquaints?
whichwayisup Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 This is really unsettling. F*k it, call the Cops next time she calls and tell them everything that's been going on. You can't go on like this, everytime your phone rings, your nerves are shot. It could be she just doesn't know how to let go and in her head (obviously) she's made MORE out of 2 dates and thinks you're her boyfriend.. Either way, her freaky behaviour has to stop and I say if she calls you ONE more time, Cop Shop time it is.
Awesome Username Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 I haven't posted anything until now, but I've been lurking this thread. Holy cow Alpha, what an adventure!
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