Lishy Posted December 30, 2009 Share Posted December 30, 2009 why? hmmm she is only calling you Alpha you are acting like she is at your window every night lol Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted December 30, 2009 Share Posted December 30, 2009 i'm tellin ya alpha, all ya gotta do is call her & tell her that your gay lover does not want you talking with her anymore. i guarantee she will stop bugging you Link to post Share on other sites
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Share Posted December 30, 2009 why? hmmm she is only calling you Alpha you are acting like she is at your window every night lol shes creepy and freaking me out *hides under desk* i'm tellin ya alpha, all ya gotta do is call her & tell her that your gay lover does not want you talking with her anymore. i guarantee she will stop bugging you but we have mutual aquaintances so i can't say i;m gay Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted December 30, 2009 Share Posted December 30, 2009 Better turn in your man card Just wait until she starts using Skype and restricted numbers/PBX/pay phones Link to post Share on other sites
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Share Posted December 30, 2009 man i hope she doesn't show up at this indian dinner i'm hosting in a couple hours...the location is public and shes in this meetup group. she is unstable and could make a scene Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted December 30, 2009 Share Posted December 30, 2009 Drama queen. Go for it. Public confrontation. Your man card is waiting Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted December 30, 2009 Share Posted December 30, 2009 i bet hot Carl was right. she is indeed stuck in an open jaw trap & is at this very moment gnawing her own foot off cause she called you for help and YOU didnt answer ALPHA! i'm ashamed of you man. Link to post Share on other sites
jw90063 Posted December 30, 2009 Share Posted December 30, 2009 Looks like if you just called her or text and gave a reasonable explanation (that's not personal towards her;make one up), as to why you don't want to see her, there would be a better chance of her leaving you alone. If that doesn't work, then you should change your number. If she continues to harass, then of course there are other options. Surely, it wouldn't get that out of hand. Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted December 30, 2009 Share Posted December 30, 2009 Drama queen. Go for it. Public confrontation. Your man card is waiting Totally concur. Having her show up a meetup event could be the best way to have it ended if she makes a fool of herself. You have only texted her once and said to not call you? Do it again with force; "Do NOT call me any more. Your calls will not be answered and your voice-mails will immediately be deleted." Link to post Share on other sites
InspiredbyYou Posted December 30, 2009 Share Posted December 30, 2009 Here you go: http://forums.techarena.in/portable-devices/1200852.htm You are in the USA dude, anything is possible! Link to post Share on other sites
InspiredbyYou Posted December 30, 2009 Share Posted December 30, 2009 If that doesn't work, then you should change your number. If she continues to harass, then of course there are other options. You could always just kill yourself to avoid the phonecalls. If she continues to harass, then of course the are other options. Link to post Share on other sites
mortensorchid Posted December 30, 2009 Share Posted December 30, 2009 Just change your cell phone number. If she's really that crazy, that she would call and leave you multiple voice mail messages in the same day and never get a response at all from you, then there is no reasoning with her. Whatever you don't respond to her at all. Don't call or text her back, any attention you pay to them will egg them on even further. I had one or two whackjobs that kept calling me. One was, I realized, just a bit clueless (I like to think), who kept calling me for MONTHS after a thwarted attempt to meet. He never left a message, but would end up calling me from sometimes as many as 10 different numbers until I picked up. Another I simply walked away from after a few dates, as he was condescending and rude, but continued to send texts even after I asked him not to contact me again (both politely and aggressively). And yet another was some guy I gave my phone number to like a year ago who started calling me out of the blue after I never connected with him the first time around. He called several times, leaving voice mail messages until I said "Enough's enough!" and changed the number. Now none of them bother me anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
Crusoe Posted December 30, 2009 Share Posted December 30, 2009 I have been all through this before Alpha, ignoring her or finding polite excuses did not work. She eventually foud out where I lived and caused all sorts of trouble. Nip it in the bud, quick and hard. Link to post Share on other sites
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Share Posted December 30, 2009 Better turn in your man card i'm not turning in my man card for something completely out of my control, the psycho should lose her female card *cries like a baby, waaaah waaaah* Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted December 30, 2009 Share Posted December 30, 2009 man i hope she doesn't show up at this indian dinner i'm hosting in a couple hours...the location is public and shes in this meetup group. she is unstable and could make a scene of course she's going to be there. you better do something about this, FAST! then again, she may still be stuck in that trap. gnawing one's own foot off can be a lengthy process Link to post Share on other sites
Hot Carl Posted December 30, 2009 Share Posted December 30, 2009 You should have gone with your instincts and not sent the text. Now you've "poked the beast". Link to post Share on other sites
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Share Posted December 30, 2009 You should have gone with your instincts and not sent the text. Now you've "poked the beast". indeed HC, indeed Link to post Share on other sites
tkgirl Posted December 31, 2009 Share Posted December 31, 2009 I'm dying to know what she said! actually just delete it without listening to it.. you don't care what she has to say, you just want her to leave you alone. Also, I say don't call her... she left you alone for 48 since her last call.... next time it will be longer 'til she calls you again.. and longer for the time after that... etc etc. Eventually she will go away. I seriously think that's how you have to deal with people like this... if you give them zero attention they will finally want to find someone else who will.. then it's their problem and not yours! i txted her saying "don't call me anymore" no! oh well, what's done is done. Hopefully she won't see this as getting "attention" and then call you again... the whole "negative attention is better than no attention" thing. I know with my stalker ex I had to just completely ignore him and he finally left me alone... oh, and the restraining order might have helped a bit too! OMG!!! this chick just called me AGAIN!!! at 4:52pm and left another msg. she's crazy man. now i'm gettin' freaked out. i don't know what to do. i don;t want to talk w/ her shes a real nut job ok... so now you know... she is NOT going to stop calling you unless you completely ignore her.... that's the only way she will go away. It may take a while but it will happen, she will get fed up and find someone else to harrass... Trust me dude... I've been there! Link to post Share on other sites
Lishy Posted December 31, 2009 Share Posted December 31, 2009 Yeah you have told her now so just ignore her Link to post Share on other sites
tkgirl Posted December 31, 2009 Share Posted December 31, 2009 Yeah you have told her now so just ignore her and don't let her get to you... like the dinner thing you have planned, you shouldn't have to be looking over your shoulder all the time while you are there. Just realize she is messed up... it is sad but NOT your problem... and really it has nothing to do with you at all. I finally could do that with my stalker ex... I felt like he was just nuts and basically talking to himself.... like all the BS he was doing just bounced right off me and back onto him. Don't give her anymore thought... don't react to what she is doing because that's what she wants you to do... Link to post Share on other sites
Hot Carl Posted December 31, 2009 Share Posted December 31, 2009 She probably has her hand wandering up his leg as we speak. Link to post Share on other sites
Angel1111 Posted December 31, 2009 Share Posted December 31, 2009 i'm not turning in my man card for something completely out of my control, the psycho should lose her female card *cries like a baby, waaaah waaaah* I second that - you need to turn in your man card. I think it's expired, anyway. :laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
Lishy Posted December 31, 2009 Share Posted December 31, 2009 Your man card expired the minute you started crying about a few phone calls lol Link to post Share on other sites
Author alphamale Posted December 31, 2009 Author Share Posted December 31, 2009 OMG THIS CHICK ACTUALLY SHOWED UP AT MY DINNER....she's a psycho. I acted all cold towards her and asked if she signed up for it. She said "um, yea i think so....". I know she hadn't signed up cause i checked the sign up list before i left. She's a nut case. Luckily she just hit the bathroom and then left and didn't stay. Probably cause i treated her like dirt. I asked her why she had shown up and she said nothing. She's crazy man. Link to post Share on other sites
trueblue72ny Posted December 31, 2009 Share Posted December 31, 2009 now she is a stalker. good luck with that! Link to post Share on other sites
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