justagoodoleboy Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Just be striaght up. all you can do is be honest. she calls, say you're not interested. it seems mean and uncomfortable...but the truth is ALWAYS easier. she may not know it now, but she'll appreciate it later.
SOLACEMENT Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 http://www.collegehumor.com/video:1918771
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 i txted her saying "don't call me anymore"
Citizen Erased Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 i txted her saying "don't call me anymore" About damn time.
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 About damn time. it had to be done
Citizen Erased Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 it had to be done Indeed alpha, indeed.
b52s Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Restraining order? Restraining order? Come on, it's a woman.
Lishy Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Restraining order? Come on, it's a woman. Have you never heard of a woman scorned? Alpha needs a bullet proof vest now as this woman is a complete NUTCASE ... I mean come on, she leaves clicks as messages when she calls for goodness sake and the crazy bint has called once in 48 hours SCARY!!!! Maybe the police could give him a new identity and he could come and live in England and dye his hair blonde to escape her craziness! Or maybe outer Mongolia is his only escape! .... I had an ex calling the police telling them he had killed me and the police where booting my door down at midnight and I didnt act like you did with a few calls :lmao: Alphy .... You are in need of a name change on here now honey ... Pussymale sounds good hahhahaha
Meaplus3 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Not sure how I missed your thread alpha, but in any case.. if I were you, I'd simply phone her and tell her to "Stop Calling you". Be direct, she should take the hint. Good luck. Mea:)
Angel1111 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 i txted her saying "don't call me anymore" Any response from her?
Citizen Erased Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 I guess at least she didn't get one of her friends to call you, put on a serious voice, and start impersonating a police officer asking you to call back on a certain number because you refused to pick up her calls. I on the other hand have not been so fortunate tonight.
tkgirl Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 i txted her saying "don't call me anymore" no! oh well, what's done is done. Hopefully she won't see this as getting "attention" and then call you again... the whole "negative attention is better than no attention" thing. I know with my stalker ex I had to just completely ignore him and he finally left me alone... oh, and the restraining order might have helped a bit too!
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 Any response from her? no response
carhill Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 My stbx evidently had a guy like that, at least from the cell records I saw, and she ended up changing her number. I know it had nothing to do with me as I was paying the cell bill for her and she gave me her new number. It cost her money to take that action, so something must've really gone wrong, since I know how she is with money. Change your number if she calls again. No number, no address, bye bye.
Angel1111 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 no response Yippee!!! She might start feeling sentimental on new year's eve....but maybe not. I think you got your point across.
tkgirl Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 My stbx evidently had a guy like that, at least from the cell records I saw, and she ended up changing her number. I know it had nothing to do with me as I was paying the cell bill for her and she gave me her new number. It cost her money to take that action, so something must've really gone wrong, since I know how she is with money. Change your number if she calls again. No number, no address, bye bye. yeah, that's good advice... hopefully she won't call anymore but if she does you might want to look into changing your number.
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 yeah, that's good advice... hopefully she won't call anymore but if she does you might want to look into changing your number. i'm not going to change my #, i've had this same # for 10 years
carhill Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 i'm not going to change my #, i've had this same # for 10 years Yeah, so did my stbx. She had to notify every one of her 300+ clients plus family and friends. Like I said, she must've been motivated.
InspiredbyYou Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Some of the advice I see on this board sometimes is SO extreme and it totally does not relate back to the level of the grievance. Extreme measure advice is given at the drop of a hat. Thank goodness you guys aren't professional therapists! Just block her number, end of story.
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 OMG!!! this chick just called me AGAIN!!! at 4:52pm and left another msg. she's crazy man. now i'm gettin' freaked out. i don't know what to do. i don;t want to talk w/ her shes a real nut job
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 can i block her # on my cell?? i have a samsung phone and AT&T
Author alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 what message did she leave? i just erased it w/o listening
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