ajikan Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 my gf is planning on going to ayia napa with 4 of her girl friends without me, and i dont want her to, i feel all the alcohol and horny men is a bad idea, she's never cheat on me or anything. I wouldnt dare tell her not to go i mean im not the boss of her, i just would like to know your opinions/experience on wether im going mad or not?
jw90063 Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 my gf is planning on going to ayia napa with 4 of her girl friends without me, and i dont want her to, i feel all the alcohol and horny men is a bad idea, she's never cheat on me or anything. I wouldnt dare tell her not to go i mean im not the boss of her, i just would like to know your opinions/experience on wether im going mad or not? You either trust her or don't. If she seems like the type who will cheat on you or there have been clues already, then it probably is a bad thing for her to go. If she hasn't given you any reason so far to distrust her, then I would assume it will be fine if she goes.
CarrieT Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 If it is any consolation, there is NO singles life in Napa and it is actually really difficult to find single men. I lived there for almost a decade and ultimately moved to San Francisco because Napa is full of FAMILIES. Now on the alcohol, that is a different matter...
MyNameIsJonas Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 my gf is planning on going to ayia napa with 4 of her girl friends without me, and i dont want her to, i feel all the alcohol and horny men is a bad idea, she's never cheat on me or anything. I wouldnt dare tell her not to go i mean im not the boss of her, i just would like to know your opinions/experience on wether im going mad or not? You are kind of in a lose-lose situation. You either get jealous/angry/whatever and forbid her from going. She then gets angry, goes anyway and approaches the whole situation with a possible sense of revenge. Or you could approach in a sane manner which is "whatever happens is on her," tell her to have fun, and deal with any situations when or if they arise. Either way, she is going to go, I really doubt there is much you can do about it. There is no use addressing a problem before it even occurs.
Angel1111 Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 There's nothing wrong with her wanting to go off with her friends and have fun. You need to just be happy for her and tell her that you'll miss her and hope she has a good time. Most women wouldn't cheat on a guy under these circumstances. She'll love you even more for letting her go without putting her on a guilt trip.
littlebittle Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 If it is any consolation, there is NO singles life in Napa and it is actually really difficult to find single men. I lived there for almost a decade and ultimately moved to San Francisco because Napa is full of FAMILIES. Now on the alcohol, that is a different matter... I think he meant Ayia Napa, which is a party resort on Cyprus.
OnlyJake Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 my gf is planning on going to ayia napa with 4 of her girl friends without me, and i dont want her to, i feel all the alcohol and horny men is a bad idea, she's never cheat on me or anything. I wouldnt dare tell her not to go i mean im not the boss of her, i just would like to know your opinions/experience on wether im going mad or not? There are alcohol and horny men everywhere Why does she need to go to Ayia Napa for you to be worried?
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