Asking co worker out. worth it?

[anne1707]

Now that you know she has a boyfriend, it is far more likely that she will make a complaint if you pursue this matter. Just leave her alone. SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN DATING YOU.

[gypsy_nicky]

Well I asked someone at my work whos friends with her if she has a boyfriend and she told me she is seeing someone. I told my coworker I thought she was cute, and why I wanted to ask her out. Do you think she will go and tell her now? I mean not a big deal.

 

Also even though i know she has a boyfriend, should I maybe try and hit on her a little, or flirt or ask her out later? I mean she would then at least know my intentions for future reference.

 

pardon my ignorance in my previous post. I did not read the whole thread. I didn't realize the girl had a bf.

 

Ok, she has a bf, more power (and lots of luck) to you if you plan on sweeping her away from him. I am not condoning this btw.

 

And yes your co-worker would have already told her what you said.

[one goal]

pardon my ignorance in my previous post. I did not read the whole thread. I didn't realize the girl had a bf.

 

Ok, she has a bf, more power (and lots of luck) to you if you plan on sweeping her away from him. I am not condoning this btw.

 

And yes your co-worker would have already told her what you said.

 

So is that a good thing maybe? That way she will know I like her.

[one goal]

Now that you know she has a boyfriend, it is far more likely that she will make a complaint if you pursue this matter. Just leave her alone. SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN DATING YOU.

 

She hasn't told me that herself though so how do I know?

[anne1707]

She hasn't told me that herself though so how do I know?

 

 

She has a boyfriend!!!!!!! Just let it go and stop stalking

[one goal]

She has a boyfriend!!!!!!! Just let it go and stop stalking

 

Im not stalking. I just want her to know how I feel about her.

[one goal]

pardon my ignorance in my previous post. I did not read the whole thread. I didn't realize the girl had a bf.

 

Ok, she has a bf, more power (and lots of luck) to you if you plan on sweeping her away from him. I am not condoning this btw.

 

And yes your co-worker would have already told her what you said.

 

Do you think thats right for her to tell her I asked she was single? Is that mean?

[one goal]

She was off today. Decent chance she works tommorow then. Im kinda nervous though. I have not eaten as much the last week. Should I just ask her out to get it out of my system?

[one goal]

One thing is that Im also shy around her. Should I maybe tell her Im so shy around her because I like you and wanted to ask you out?

[Tony]

This has gone on for long enough!