thatguy90 Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 I just wonder how some people got a second chance with there ex's. Yes I know most of them do end up breaking up in the end. But there is something about my ex which sets her apart from any girl that I have met, its not the s*x, its not anything about the relationship, I just think of her and I see that she was truly a great person, i felt whole, like near the end I fell apart mentally because I could not deal with everything, but I have pulled myself together.
Kantor Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 I just wonder how some people got a second chance with there ex's. Yes I know most of them do end up breaking up in the end. But there is something about my ex which sets her apart from any girl that I have met, its not the s*x, its not anything about the relationship, I just think of her and I see that she was truly a great person, i felt whole, like near the end I fell apart mentally because I could not deal with everything, but I have pulled myself together. I think if your the dumpee your SOL. Now if your the dumper, there may be more potential. However, its a long road to fix the problems that broke your relationship in the first place. Can it be done, yes. Does it happen often, more often then you think, since we only really see the bad news on here. You have to evaluate your situation and figure out what is best in your case. Many times you broke up for a reason and that reason can't be fixed or the damage is already done.
Author thatguy90 Posted December 26, 2009 Author Posted December 26, 2009 I was the person who was dumped ...
HeavenOrHell Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 Even if you were right for each other, you may not be now, me and my ex were special together and solid for best part of 18 years, but he left me 5 months ago so I have become cynical about love now, so it's best if I shut up! I feel in my heart he is still the person for me, but it takes two, so I'm stuffed! We can't always get what we want even when it feels so right. I just wonder how some people got a second chance with there ex's. Yes I know most of them do end up breaking up in the end. But there is something about my ex which sets her apart from any girl that I have met, its not the s*x, its not anything about the relationship, I just think of her and I see that she was truly a great person, i felt whole, like near the end I fell apart mentally because I could not deal with everything, but I have pulled myself together.
Author thatguy90 Posted December 26, 2009 Author Posted December 26, 2009 I was not myself when we split ... and my life had become hectic ... right now I have become very numb to my surroundings, and I am mostly myself again, and able to deal with things. I just don't know ... I have gone to LC (Low contact) / NC ... I am mostly fine talking to her
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