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dont miss him:mad:

 

just the feeling of emptyness.I am a good woman. Iam not horrible.:mad:

 

i should feel great, he has gone. im sailing my own ship I have vision strength and happiness in my soul.

 

ugh. hey new year?? new life?? all my dreams will come true. why do I feel soooooo poo. maybe i just need a hug? we all do dont we?

 

how about a meeeting in america? LS?? we can allbe annonamous.

 

just a thought. hug fest xx:love:

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(((Hugs))) Nobmagnet

 

And just think - some of us are much closer. Just hop on to the M6 !

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wwhere are you? M6 hey not too far!!

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hugs too

thanks love xxxxxxxxxxx

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Feeling the same, although I do still miss him.

 

The last few days have been the hardest ever!!

 

I've had family staying over and have put a brave face on but inside I'm just dying....

 

I'm also just up the M6!!

 

((Big Hugs))

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dont miss him:mad:

 

just the feeling of emptyness.I am a good woman. Iam not horrible.:mad:

 

i should feel great, he has gone. im sailing my own ship I have vision strength and happiness in my soul.

 

ugh. hey new year?? new life?? all my dreams will come true. why do I feel soooooo poo. maybe i just need a hug? we all do dont we?

 

how about a meeeting in america? LS?? we can allbe annonamous.

 

just a thought. hug fest xx:love:

 

Of course you're a good woman. Just remember, it was all about him, his selfish wants and desires ruled him. You did right by pushing him off the fence. Once they cheat, they are broken and next to impossible to put them back together.

 

A new life for you. You deserve it. ((((hugs)))))

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(((((Mags))))) (that's what I have decided to call you if you don't mind)

 

2010 is going to be a fab year.

You have been such an inspiration hun, since I have been here..

Thank you.

 

xxxx

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Add my moans to the cry - I too feel so alone and empty.

 

I spent 5.5 years fighting a losing battle. It just hurts - that's what I'm having trouble getting past.

 

I'm so looking forward to a time it is ancient history and I can look back and laugh, but right now, I still wish with every fiber of my being that he would call and tell me all the ways he plans to change and prove how much he loves me.

 

He won't, but that's what I want.

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Ugh, the worst name you could have chosen as far as I'm concerned :laugh: Hate seeing that name, no offence!

 

 

(((((Mags))))) (that's what I have decided to call you if you don't mind)

 

2010 is going to be a fab year.

You have been such an inspiration hun, since I have been here..

Thank you.

 

xxxx

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Add my moans to the cry - I too feel so alone and empty.

 

I spent 5.5 years fighting a losing battle. It just hurts - that's what I'm having trouble getting past.

 

I'm so looking forward to a time it is ancient history and I can look back and laugh, but right now, I still wish with every fiber of my being that he would call and tell me all the ways he plans to change and prove how much he loves me.

 

He won't, but that's what I want.

 

I feel your pain, so bad.

 

In my heart I keep telling myself 'he'll see he made the wrong choice' but my head tells me he won't.

 

It is what it is, we (OW) made them happy when they needed it but we are not W material and never will be.

 

I will always hold onto that hope that he really does love me and everything he said was the truth but I also know I need to move on.

 

((hugs))

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Add my moans to the cry - I too feel so alone and empty.

 

I spent 5.5 years fighting a losing battle. It just hurts - that's what I'm having trouble getting past.

 

I'm so looking forward to a time it is ancient history and I can look back and laugh, but right now, I still wish with every fiber of my being that he would call and tell me all the ways he plans to change and prove how much he loves me.

 

He won't, but that's what I want.

 

 

Awwww!! Curious ((((hugs))))

 

I understand how hurt you must feel.

I hope that time comes quickly.... when you hurt less.

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I feel your pain, so bad.

 

In my heart I keep telling myself 'he'll see he made the wrong choice' but my head tells me he won't.

 

It is what it is, we (OW) made them happy when they needed it but we are not W material and never will be.

 

I will always hold onto that hope that he really does love me and everything he said was the truth but I also know I need to move on.

 

((hugs))

 

I don't think I was an OW, I'm 99% certain I was the primary, perhaps only for a long time - although I am equally certain that more recently he was on a dating site and perhaps hooking up.

 

I AM wife material - truth is he's probably not husband material.

 

But I really appreciate your hugs and understanding.

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Awwww!! Curious ((((hugs))))

 

I understand how hurt you must feel.

I hope that time comes quickly.... when you hurt less.

 

Thanks Brightmoon - your mouth to G-d's ears!

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More (((((hugs))))) hun, I feel really lonely and empty this eve too, yuk.

We will get through this though :) I'll check in each day and see how you are, feel free to PM too. And are you going to get your dog? :love:

Right, I'm off to my empty bed :rolleyes:

Night xx

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More (((((hugs))))) hun, I feel really lonely and empty this eve too, yuk.

We will get through this though :) I'll check in each day and see how you are, feel free to PM too. And are you going to get your dog? :love:

Right, I'm off to my empty bed :rolleyes:

Night xx

 

Oh indeed yes, we're in this together - I'll check in daily too. still waiting to hear about the dog. they need to find a volunteer to do the home visit (make sure I have one I guess), if I pass that then I can speak with the foster (s) until I find one we feel is suited for me. Fingers crossed!

 

Of course if/when I do get a dog - it's like the nail in the coffin of the ex and I ever getting back together, he is opposed to rescuing dogs. I've only recently figured out he is opposed to ALOT of things.

 

Harumph - Grumpy old man!

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Haha, funny thing is I was just saying to someone else that my ex and her bf are grumpy old men :laugh:

Your doggie will be worth the wait :love:

Catch up tomorrow hun x

 

 

Oh indeed yes, we're in this together - I'll check in daily too. still waiting to hear about the dog. they need to find a volunteer to do the home visit (make sure I have one I guess), if I pass that then I can speak with the foster (s) until I find one we feel is suited for me. Fingers crossed!

 

Of course if/when I do get a dog - it's like the nail in the coffin of the ex and I ever getting back together, he is opposed to rescuing dogs. I've only recently figured out he is opposed to ALOT of things.

 

Harumph - Grumpy old man!

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Haha, funny thing is I was just saying to someone else that my ex and her bf are grumpy old men :laugh:

Your doggie will be worth the wait :love:

Catch up tomorrow hun x

 

Sleep well - peaceful dreams

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I don't think I was an OW, I'm 99% certain I was the primary, perhaps only for a long time - although I am equally certain that more recently he was on a dating site and perhaps hooking up.

 

I AM wife material - truth is he's probably not husband material.

 

But I really appreciate your hugs and understanding.

 

I'm sorry:o

 

Hugs and understanding still stand.x

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