Thebob Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 So I met this girl back during Thanksgiving at a club, we hooked up (no sex), because she doesn't do that with random guys and told me that she is a relationship type of girl in which I respected and we been talking ever since. We talked like 1nce ever 4-5 days until christmas break and during christmas break we been talking everyday cause she is back in town. Then I invited her and her friends to come over to my place to see if I could see her again and see if we had the same connection from last time. So they did come over to drink and relax in which she complied and we had a great time and hooked up again (no sex). Then that night the friend told me that she likes me a lot, and they want me to pursue her. Then the girl I'm after friends came over 2 night later, and were asking me what I thought of her and told me this girl is really shy, doesn't initiate and if you like her you need to go after her. They told me that they think she is ready for a relationship due to the fact that she got out of a 2.5 year one this previous August. In my sense, i think she likes me as well, and hopefully the friends aren't yanking my chain. Were both out of town right now due to break and the holidays, but what should I do when were both back. The girl told me when she is headed back and I would like to see if I could spark something out of her. I know what I told her friends will get back to her somehow, in which I planned on cause I made it sound really good and it was truthful. I like her a lot and i really don't want to mess this up. Need some advice please. So pretty much I seen her twice, but been talking for a month, she has only been in 2 relationships in her life cause she isn't the skanking around type and has a smile that lights up the world. Like this type of girl is the one i been lookin for like for awhile. Thanks everyone Thebob
alphamale Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 So.. whats the question? to pursue or not to pursue. i think the answer is pretty obvious here
Yukikazi Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 to pursue or not to pursue. i think the answer is pretty obvious here I assumed he was being sarcastic as why the hell would we tell him not to .. why would he not pursue anyways regardless.. she isn't being subtle or playing hard to get.. least not yet..
alphamale Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 .. why would he not pursue anyways regardless.. maybe he is a shy "nice guy"
norajane Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 Ask her out on a date. You know, a date, where just the two of you go out together with the intention of flirting and having fun.
Author Thebob Posted December 27, 2009 Author Posted December 27, 2009 I'm just sayin, friends aren't always the most trustworthy and I hate rejection.... From a girls point of view, if you asked a guy who has hooked up with one of your friends you'd prolly tell your girlfriend what he said right? Or she wanted to find information out from him through her friends since she is shy right? So pretty much I am obligated to ask her out now... Thebob
Author Thebob Posted December 27, 2009 Author Posted December 27, 2009 everyone does I know I know, Guess it's worth an attempt, if I fail then it wasn't meant to be. But I think I have good chances that it will succeed. Thebob
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