danyuld Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 So I met this cool girl. We met on facebook but the problem is. I have so many girls leaving me comments that originally she thought I was a player. I totally made a joke out of it when she said "What do your little girlfriends think about it" I told her something along the lines of all 20 migets love me. Or something like that. She loved it and still mentions that joke. But anyway we met up twice. Made out the first time then we fooled around at my place. She knows I am going through a divorce and I am currently seperated for the next 3 months until its final. After that night she starts talking about her ex boyfriend and how she misses him but in the same convo tells me how surprised she was by my performance in taking charge in the bedroom etc. She speaks about her ex and I totally dont know what to say. I guess I just listen to her and give her one sided answers. THe next day I guess she relized she overstepped a boundry and kept talking about how I need a girl like her and that she wants to see me again. Then the day after that she says "I really like you but you are married and we wilol both end up getting hurt" Now she responds to every facebook status I leave and when she ims me she always asks me what my ex looks like, if I am still in love with her and how much of a player I am and I dress too nice to be a straight man! When I ask her if she wants to go to a party she says "yes" but caught the flu. Then I invited her to dinner and she said "maybe". I asked her if she didnt want to hang out with me anymore and she just said "lets keep it at maybe". I didnt pursue it nor will I anymore then after that she proceeds to talk to me for 3 hours about evolution. Is this girl whacko? Am I exhibiting traits of a "player". I havent done anything with a girl other then her in 8 months and that was my wife.
DustySaltus Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 3 hours about evolution.....evolution of a wackjob/jealousy filled affair. Be careful, she's playing games...
Yukikazi Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 Sure seems a few nuggets short of a happy meal
LostInLA Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 She sounds confused and is not over her ex. It sounds like she's not ready to date.
Author danyuld Posted December 26, 2009 Author Posted December 26, 2009 Yea I guess you are right. The warning signs were there from the first convo ever.
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