feelincrappy Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 Hello everyone, my girlfriend of about 1 year dumped me last month because she for the past 4 months has been in love with her teacher. She told me the only reason she was with me was not to hurt my feelings. We've had a long-distance relationship, and I'm visiting her now in December, she let me come because she felt bad for me, and I'm going back home on January the 8th. She also said she tried to love me again but she couldn't, her feelings for this teacher are too strong she says. Now she's having her holidays, so she isn't seeing this teacher, who she misses a lot. I know this is hopeless, but I love her so desperately much, I just want her back, is there anything I can do to eventually make her love me again? Thanks in advance!
gaudi Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 I think you know the answer to this one my friend. Is there anything you can do to make her love you again...no, you can't make anyone love you. It doesn't happen, I unfortunately found this out the hard way. What you can do is make yourself the person who people love, you can grow as a person, you can do everything in your power to get what's good for you. As for her, if you love her...set her free, she'll come back if it's meant to be. For now though mate, pointless worrying about things you can't control. Take care of yourself and let the world worry about everything else. Good luck mate. We're all here.
LovelyDaze Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 I think you know the answer to this one my friend. Is there anything you can do to make her love you again...no, you can't make anyone love you. It doesn't happen, I unfortunately found this out the hard way. What you can do is make yourself the person who people love, you can grow as a person, you can do everything in your power to get what's good for you. As for her, if you love her...set her free, she'll come back if it's meant to be. For now though mate, pointless worrying about things you can't control. Take care of yourself and let the world worry about everything else. Good luck mate. We're all here. gaudi is one of my many favorite LS members! Read those words again "...no, you can't make anyone love you." Simple as that. gaudi, me, and MANY others are dealing with broken hearts right now and some of us are in that stage of acceptance over what we can not change and that is...our ex. You will be told with ferocity to stay NC (NO CONTACT). We mean, no calling, texting, e-mailing, visiting...nothing. Trust us, if you contact your ex now while your wound is still fresh, she will say and/or do something to hurt that wound even deeper and have it bleed even stronger. Just look at some of the posts of others who broke NC and read the horrible results. Love yourself enough to take time out to at least bandage your heart by talking with friends,family, and your new friends (US! ) here at LS. Anytime you need to vent, ask, cry, discuss...do it. There are people on here who care and we will be your breakup buddies!
Author feelincrappy Posted December 26, 2009 Author Posted December 26, 2009 Yeah, you guys are right, thanks alot for your concern though, really appreciate it :/
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