theizz Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I know a lot of girls don't like to "put out" early in relationships. I don't know why, maybe they don't want to be thought of as slutty, or maybe they don't want to be used by a guy that might not be serious about them. But would those type of girls let a guy go down on them instead? I mean that's not being slutty, right? And isn't the guy the only one being used in that case? Any opinions from the ladies?
Author theizz Posted December 25, 2009 Author Posted December 25, 2009 Whats your hurry? I feel close to her, I want to get past the physical barrier, and I can't stop thinking about pleasing her sexually.
Throne Of Lies Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 They will let you do that earlier than they will do a lot of things to you, yes. Even good girls. Still, that might not be the best play. Constantly asking permission and stopping at preset boundaries makes you look weak. It is better to wait until she wants to go the whole way and then sex her properly.
Author theizz Posted December 25, 2009 Author Posted December 25, 2009 They will let you do that earlier than they will do a lot of things to you, yes. Even good girls. Still, that might not be the best play. Constantly asking permission and stopping at preset boundaries makes you look weak. It is better to wait until she wants to go the whole way and then sex her properly. Interesting point. I wasn't really looking at it as a pre-set boundary though. I really just want to give her aural, and hopefully have her orgasm.
carhill Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I really just want to give her aural, and hopefully have her orgasm. Remember to use the phone IMO, if the woman is not ready for nor interested in intercourse, presuming she is healthy reproductively, she's not ready for sexual relations. Cunnilingus, nee aural, is a part of sexual relations
Author theizz Posted December 25, 2009 Author Posted December 25, 2009 Remember to use the phone IMO, if the woman is not ready for nor interested in intercourse, presuming she is healthy reproductively, she's not ready for sexual relations. Cunnilingus, nee aural, is a part of sexual relations Oops. Meant oral obviously.
sunshine94 Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 If I am not having sex with a guy, I would not let him go down on me either.
carhill Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Nothing wrong with aural sex. Did it plenty when I was a virgin If I am not having sex with a guy, I would not let him go down on me either. This
bac Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 If you mean under 'go down on her' as oral sex for her, it is not typically a good idea. IMHO for girls, any oral sex does require much more connection and intimacy than vaginal sex. The vaginal sex needs the least amount of intimacy. Then comes oral sex for him and the oral sex for her is the most intimate thing for a girl. In other words, to get some kind of pleasure from it, she should trust you deeply.
thats what i said Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I guess I'm a "good girl" and no, I would not let a guy go down on me before I was ready to have sex. I've had several guys ask very early on and as far as I'm concerned, he loses major brownie points for even going there so early on. 1
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 I find oral sex to be rather intimate. So if I wasn't ready mentally to have intercourse, I wouldn't be ready for oral sex.
Pizzaman81 Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 I know a lot of girls don't like to "put out" early in relationships. I don't know why, maybe they don't want to be thought of as slutty, or maybe they don't want to be used by a guy that might not be serious about them. But would those type of girls let a guy go down on them instead? I mean that's not being slutty, right? And isn't the guy the only one being used in that case? Any opinions from the ladies? Ok I have no opinion on this, but for the LONGEST time everytime I read the subject of this topic I thought it read: "Do good girls let guys down on them early on?" Meaning do good girls drop guys early on and not lead them on? My dirty mind should have caught this earlier... hmmm interesting.
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