casey001 Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 The title says it all really. Im having this issue as of late that everyone who seems to have a crush on me i seem to despise I dont know whats wrong with me!! Ive had two really serious boyfriends who both broke my heart soooooooooo badly. I have been through my whole life being rejected time after time and just flat out never been given any attention from males. I have always had a big heart and have fallen for many guys over the years, only to have my heart broken the majority of the time. Theres nothing I want more than love and happiness with that right guy. Anyway as of late something strange is happening where i actually seem to be going through a phase off attracting males!!! Anyway once these guys make it knowen to me that they are interested or ask me out I suddenly seem to despise them I dont know why Ive never had this problem before, infact its been the opposite beforehand. Ive been single for a year now after a pretty heartbreaking split and all I want is that someone in my life again, But how come every time I get a chance I dont seem to want it? The guys I seem to be to attracted to aren't interested in me and I seem to despise the rest even tho I want that special man so bad Whats wrong with me and how do I overcome this before I lose out
Simon Attwood Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I don't know??!! Im so confused I ask a question to Casey, and Sarah replies .... now i'm confused
xpaperxcutx Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 ^ lol anyways, OP, I think you need to back off from guys indefinitely for now. You're clearly projecting your hatred or your exes on to the new guys, and it seems hardly fair. Have you given yourself enough time to heal?
Brightmoon Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member. Groucho Marx
Madelf Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Just sounds like you want to give "payback", or know what it's like on the other side. Whatever it is you need to work it out before you burn too many bridges.
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