AvianChaos Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I'm pretty sure I will just ignore it but my ex just sent me a text saying Merry Xmas and to have a good one. I initiated NC 5 months ago and we've been done for 7. I just want to be over her! What do you think, should i just ignore it or tell her Merry Xmas as well?
TaraMaiden Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Don't be 'pretty sure'....be 'absolutely, definitely,utterly, totally, completely sure'. leave it. Don't respond, other than out loud, as you delete the text. "yeah, you too. Now go away". *presses delete*. Get on with your day.
SushiOji Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I just got a text too, there is nothing Merry about it after what I've been through. She will not get any response from me.
fofiffs Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 im so glad ive changed my number. I hope i never get a text like that from an ex. Seriously wtf are they thinking sending txts like that. If i ever get a text like that from my ex all she would get is a merry F**K YOU
james&thegiantpeach Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Yeah, I got one of those from the ex too after she told me that it would be the last time I heard from her..yeah bull ****..merry **** you bitch!!
hurting_in_nw Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 I have an ex who doesn't really get the message...I had told her to stop texting me earlier this year, but she kept sending these inane, small-talk type texts hoping I'd respond. Finally I had enough and texted her back, "I asked you very nicely months ago to please leave me alone. Why can't you respect that?" She replied "OK, I'm sorry" and managed to go about five months without texting me...until Christmas. I got the "Merry Christmas, we (her and her son) miss you a lot." Then it went on to say how ending things with me was the worst mistake of her life (even though I ended things with her after getting fed up with her lies and BS), that she's thought of me every day we've been apart, and that she knows what's done is done and just hopes I'm happy. I gave her no reply, she just doesn't deserve one after the way she treated me! Regret's a b**ch, ain't it sweetheart?
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