bubbles43 Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I'm having some issues with distance because I'm trying to figure out how I feel about a very close friend of mine. We are not dating and have never discussed the possibility, but I find myself thinking about it more and more. This friend and I met about 5 months ago, right before moved 3 hours away, and almost instantly became super close. We have been able to carry on a great friendship despite not seeing each other much. We have a lot in common and he is a very caring person. We seem to have a lot of chemistry and talk about pretty much everything. My problem is that I'm not sure if I feel more than friendship towards him, and can't figure it out because of the distance. Even if I do feel something more, I don't think I would want a relationship because while I am all for an LDR, I feel that for me it would need a much stronger foundation and I care about his friendship first. I also have zero idea about how he feels about me. So, I guess I would just say that I'm extremely confused and it's beginning to affect our friendship because I'm starting to act really weird. I can't seem to get over the need to figure out my feelings. I would really like to talk to him about this but I'm not sure what I would say or what it would solve. Does bringing it up seem necessary, or should I just leave it alone and see what happens?
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