sonicranger Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 So, ladies, as this is a new concept for me, that is she bought herself some very good looking lingerie to wear for ME for my Christmas present. She made me leave the room for a moment while she got the present "ready" and when I came back...WOW! I was not completely dumbfounded but still happily amazed. Clearly things are going well in my relationship but I was just curious as to what a "gift" like this means as far as the seriousness or not, of the relationship. I'm very inclined to think what is probably most people natural inclination. That she is very into me, she is very attracted to me and wants to please me. But of course, she is a woman and we all know how easy it is to misinterpret "signs" that they are giving to us men. If anything, I figured it'd make for some lively conversation about great Christmas presents specifically related to you and your mate etc. No talk about big screen TV's or any of that crap... Only wanna hear about the "good stuff".
Pizzaman81 Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 So, ladies, as this is a new concept for me, that is she bought herself some very good looking lingerie to wear for ME for my Christmas present. She made me leave the room for a moment while she got the present "ready" and when I came back...WOW! I was not completely dumbfounded but still happily amazed. Clearly things are going well in my relationship but I was just curious as to what a "gift" like this means as far as the seriousness or not, of the relationship. I'm very inclined to think what is probably most people natural inclination. That she is very into me, she is very attracted to me and wants to please me. But of course, she is a woman and we all know how easy it is to misinterpret "signs" that they are giving to us men. If anything, I figured it'd make for some lively conversation about great Christmas presents specifically related to you and your mate etc. No talk about big screen TV's or any of that crap... Only wanna hear about the "good stuff". It means she's giving you something that you will soon never forget. Better than an electric shaver! You're lucky you got a girl that does sexy things like this. Now use the gift!
TheBritishGuy Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Means shes a freaky girl. It's a gesture with symbolism attached to it. Much better than the crap most couples give each other.
deux ex machina Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Means shes a freaky girl...It's a gesture with symbolism attached to it... Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar, Dr. Freud.
Author sonicranger Posted December 25, 2009 Author Posted December 25, 2009 It's always interesting trying to figure these things out. I have to believe that it is indeed a pretty serious gift that she clearly thought about for awhile. I absolutely love it and am starting to contemplate the whole "L" word too. Merry Christmas...heading out to all the fam damily's today!
aerogurl87 Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 So, ladies, as this is a new concept for me, that is she bought herself some very good looking lingerie to wear for ME for my Christmas present. She made me leave the room for a moment while she got the present "ready" and when I came back...WOW! I was not completely dumbfounded but still happily amazed. Clearly things are going well in my relationship but I was just curious as to what a "gift" like this means as far as the seriousness or not, of the relationship. I'm very inclined to think what is probably most people natural inclination. That she is very into me, she is very attracted to me and wants to please me. But of course, she is a woman and we all know how easy it is to misinterpret "signs" that they are giving to us men. If anything, I figured it'd make for some lively conversation about great Christmas presents specifically related to you and your mate etc. No talk about big screen TV's or any of that crap... Only wanna hear about the "good stuff". Well for Xmas I didn't get my boyfriend anything because he claimed he didn't want anything. But then he surprised me with a box full of Godiva chocolate. So I'm gonna surprise him with a sexy lapdance later this week.
Double Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 So, ladies, as this is a new concept for me, that is she bought herself some very good looking lingerie to wear for ME for my Christmas present. She made me leave the room for a moment while she got the present "ready" and when I came back...WOW! I was not completely dumbfounded but still happily amazed. Clearly things are going well in my relationship but I was just curious as to what a "gift" like this means as far as the seriousness or not, of the relationship. I'm very inclined to think what is probably most people natural inclination. That she is very into me, she is very attracted to me and wants to please me. But of course, she is a woman and we all know how easy it is to misinterpret "signs" that they are giving to us men. If anything, I figured it'd make for some lively conversation about great Christmas presents specifically related to you and your mate etc. No talk about big screen TV's or any of that crap... Only wanna hear about the "good stuff". It's always interesting trying to figure these things out. I have to believe that it is indeed a pretty serious gift that she clearly thought about for awhile. I absolutely love it and am starting to contemplate the whole "L" word too. Merry Christmas...heading out to all the fam damily's today! Maybe she just wanted to buy herself some new underwear? I've always thought of that as the cliched default gift for new-ish relationships when the girl doesn't know what to get the guy. It's a back up if she can't think of anything else to get him, at least for all my friends. Sorry to be the ******* cynic. It's nice that she wanted to spend some "QT" with you for Christmas.
EricaH329 Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I did that for the guy i'm seeing for his birthday few weeks ago. We went to Victoria's Secret together so that he could pick it out. He loved it! The only problem now is that he is always asking where his birthday present is
sunshinegirl Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 If anything, I figured it'd make for some lively conversation about great Christmas presents specifically related to you and your mate etc. My birthday was last week so my new-ish boyfriend had two back-to-back rounds of gifting (poor guy). They weren't of a racy nature but they were definitely original, personal, and he did a fair amount of independent research/work to put them together for me. For my birthday he gave me several small gag gifts, all relating to inside jokes or conversations we've had. The card he gave me was about a long-running family joke that I hadn't told him about yet (he had contacted my sister, who gave him the dirt), and he also gave me a climbing rope and bag. Which was also a big deal because I had mentioned wanting a rope back in June when we met (and weren't yet dating) and he remembered it. He also had to track down one of my climbing friends, whom he hadn't met yet, to get advice on what kind of rope to buy, as he's not a climber himself. For Christmas, he gave me a duvet cover that he had had customized with a satin-y edge (he shopped for the material himself, and then hired a woman to sew it on) because he knows I love blankets with satin-y edges. Yes, I am a dork, but my BF embraces all of me, dork side and all.
Author sonicranger Posted December 27, 2009 Author Posted December 27, 2009 Maybe she just wanted to buy herself some new underwear? I've always thought of that as the cliched default gift for new-ish relationships when the girl doesn't know what to get the guy. It's a back up if she can't think of anything else to get him, at least for all my friends. Sorry to be the ******* cynic. It's nice that she wanted to spend some "QT" with you for Christmas. I guess I should've mentioned that she made me the softest, fuzziest blanket I've ever owned. She also got me a very nice shirt that she thought I'd look "hot" in and got me the first season of House on DVD, which I love House but I haven't seen all of the first season and she hasn't really seen any but wants to watch them...
threebyfate Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 While it sounds like you enjoyed the gift sonicranger, I personally feel it's a little selfish for her to "gift" you with lingerie that she gets to wear. But then, I find that lingerie being gifted to women on Valentine's Day, is also selfish.
skydiveaddict Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 I guess I should've mentioned that she made me the softest, fuzziest blanket I've ever owned. She also got me a very nice shirt that she thought I'd look "hot" in and got me the first season of House on DVD, which I love House but I haven't seen all of the first season and she hasn't really seen any but wants to watch them... damn dude, if you ever get tired of her will you give me her phone # ?
Author sonicranger Posted December 29, 2009 Author Posted December 29, 2009 LOL. I do believe that our relationship is going to be for a long time so hopefully you'll find your own girl that piques your interest!!!
Zeegagge Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 Marry this girl. And don't be scared about it either, else you end up in the sadness that is the 'Breaks and Breaking Up' section of this site.
Star Gazer Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 While it sounds like you enjoyed the gift sonicranger, I personally feel it's a little selfish for her to "gift" you with lingerie that she gets to wear. Quoted for truth!
nddb Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 While it sounds like you enjoyed the gift sonicranger, I personally feel it's a little selfish for her to "gift" you with lingerie that she gets to wear. Not really. "wear" being 10 seconds before it lands on the floor.
Knittress Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 I'm in agreement with the "strangely self-serving gift" idea. I think it's evident that she wants to please you, and that's a great aspect in a sexual relationship - but putting the "gift" label on this??? Well.... to me it's heading towards the slippery slope of sex-as-reward-for-good-behavior, when it really ought to be something that is given freely between couples.
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