herselftheelf Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Me and my ex have broke up twice. The first time.. we were close but because of weird circumstances I never went to his house. For like 1 1/2 years. We didnt have 'relationship' that whole time though- we were just friends for most of it. He dumped me and IMMEDIATELY started fixing/ cleaning his house because he met another woman. I had never been to his house because it was messy/ cluttered, he said. This woman dumped him and me and him became closer again and he invited me over a lot. For the first time. But remember, he cleaned it because of meeting HER. Only because of that was I allowed over finally. We had a year long relationship, much closer than before. I went over several times... it's cluttered and stuff again/ has been most of the time. Now that we're broken up he's decluttering like mad. Because he has his sights set on an ex...(not the woman who dumped him before) and wants to be able to invite her over sometime if he gets the opportunity. Would you be really hurt, or feel like he's comfortable with you and thats why he never cleaned it/ fixed it up for you.
TheBritishGuy Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I don't think you should think about the situation in that way no matter what game he was playing he obviously doesn't treat women very well but I do think he probably didn't have intentions of fixing up the place for you.
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