fooled once Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 Ok...We all know MOST women cant handle the truth but here it is anyway..... Recently i posted "Why are married men allways the sexiest" and i know i got a couple of the W's pissed maybe i should of had a disclaimer but oh well..... Point is MW (NOT ALL) seem to me to get a little comfortable in a marriage ie: Gaining ALOT of weight, not cooking, not cleaning, not sexually adventurous, nagging your husband over the smallest issues etc etc etc. I understand you've had a couple kids, god bless you but if your husband met you at 130 lbs and 4 years later your 225!! Thats not cute..Try working out together go jogging/walking so you can fit into that sexy victoria secret number you've been eyeing, he'll appreciate it more than you will..trying having a fully prepared home cooked meal for him when he comes home from work, we all know a man's home should be his sanctuary is it not? Even better try giving him a blow job when he least expects it:) Im sure every man reading this would definately agree with me on that one LOL. Point is alot of MW dont like to hear where they are slacking and dont blame me for keeping it real...So ladies i understand and im sure your husband loves you of course he does he married you...But when his eyes start "wandering" and he is all of a sudden "working late" Ask yourself Am i getting to comfortable???? ;) What a joke of a post. Home cooked meal? After working 9 hours a day? Know how many MEN I see slacking? Fat, pot belly, stinky men? How about HE cook the dinner? How about HE pick his nasty socks up off the floor? How about HE clean his own dirty underwear? How about he surprise his wife and provide oral to HER and make her feel like a princess instead of a hole he needs to plug?
Author Nubian Posted December 26, 2009 Author Posted December 26, 2009 @ Fooled once...Good Point:cool::cool:
bentnotbroken Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 What a joke of a post. Home cooked meal? After working 9 hours a day? Know how many MEN I see slacking? Fat, pot belly, stinky men? How about HE cook the dinner? How about HE pick his nasty socks up off the floor? How about HE clean his own dirty underwear? How about he surprise his wife and provide oral to HER and make her feel like a princess instead of a hole he needs to plug? That's exactly what I said.
TheBritishGuy Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 What a joke of a post. Home cooked meal? After working 9 hours a day? Know how many MEN I see slacking? Fat, pot belly, stinky men? How about HE cook the dinner? How about HE pick his nasty socks up off the floor? How about HE clean his own dirty underwear? How about he surprise his wife and provide oral to HER and make her feel like a princess instead of a hole he needs to plug? Lol that door does swing both ways. Out of curiousity you ever met or been with a man like that? The hygiene thing has got to be rare most guys don't even have unkempt nails anymore.
bentnotbroken Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 Lol that door does swing both ways. Out of curiousity you ever met or been with a man like that? The hygiene thing has got to be rare most guys don't even have unkempt nails anymore. Whether they actually stink or not, some of them get pot bellies, bald heads, wrinkles, and they don't know what to do with the penis of lips God gave them. Some of them run off at the mouth like they only want to hear themselves speak and they have the fore thought of a squirrel crossing the road in rush hour.
TheBritishGuy Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 Whether they actually stink or not, some of them get pot bellies, bald heads, wrinkles, and they don't know what to do with the penis of lips God gave them. Some of them run off at the mouth like they only want to hear themselves speak and they have the fore thought of a squirrel crossing the road in rush hour. While you can exercise to keep the pot belly at bay and try and live a less stressful lifestyle to reduce wrinkles if you have the male pattern baldness gene there isn't a cure in any form or way for that. I think you'll find more than a few guys willing to go down though its a good way to get the kind of reaction you want lol
bittersweet memories Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 @ Fooled once...Good Point:cool::cool: Go back to the 1950's where you belong!!!
soserious1 Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 (edited) Yawn.....Like i said MOST women CANT handle the TRUTH....... And bottom line if a man isnt getting what he needs/wants at home he WILL look else where. MW Step your game up!!!!:):) Meh.. nah, not interested, you can have him.. be sure to take his dirty laundry and unpaid bills with you and don't let the door slam on your arses on the way out. Edited December 26, 2009 by soserious1
Author Nubian Posted December 26, 2009 Author Posted December 26, 2009 Hey BB07!!! I was wondering when you'd show up:D Troll?? Whats That??
torranceshipman Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 (edited) Nubian sounds like you are innvolved with MMand have to look Barbie-perfect and act like a perfect 1950s submissive little woman for the guy, as that is what he wants in an affair partner (a fantasy meaning he doesn't want a real woman he wants a fantasy and will always comaprtmentalize the A-you had better always stay perfect too else he'll get another OW). He probably tells you his W is some hideous thing that can't please him (usualy a lie!). Often a W doesn't have to look perfect because he's really in love with her and it isn't looks alone that he cares about. So I'd actually say in many cases there's more pressure on the OW to have to do the working out, cooking, blowjobs, submissive good girl thing as that's kinda your function (presuming the A is a midlife crisis type of thng or where the MM seems to demand this stuff in the 1st place-I know a few MMs are in love with the OW and leave their wives). Edited December 26, 2009 by torranceshipman
torranceshipman Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 (edited) you also sound quite young and jealous...if a MM is after you because he thinks you are hot, in shape and gives good blow jobs then he is just using you for sex and that's so disrespectful to you! Edited December 26, 2009 by torranceshipman
soserious1 Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 I think it's important for EVERYBODY man or woman to try to stay slim and toned, to remain as healthy and attractive as they can for a lot of reasons. However, having to "step up your game" because of the overt threat that if you don't your spouse (that person who took a vow of fidelity) is going to start slipping out and sleeping with others doesn't fly with me. You aren't happy with your spouse's appearance? say so, their weight gain is a deal breaker for you? say so. Let em know in clear, easy to understand words that you are unhappy and set a time line after which, if change is not forth coming that you will be filing for divorce.. be clear about what you expect and what the consequences will be if those expectations aren't met. Divorce is the answer, not lies, deceptions, not endangering other people's sexual health via infidelity.
threebyfate Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 No, Nubian, I'm not mad at you. I think you're a troll but if you're not, I'm thankful that women like you exist, so you can filter out the self-indulgent cheaters in our lives. Cheers and Happy Holidays.
reddog63 Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 Ok...We all know MOST women cant handle the truth but here it is anyway..... Recently i posted "Why are married men allways the sexiest" and i know i got a couple of the W's pissed maybe i should of had a disclaimer but oh well..... Point is MW (NOT ALL) seem to me to get a little comfortable in a marriage ie: Gaining ALOT of weight, not cooking, not cleaning, not sexually adventurous, nagging your husband over the smallest issues etc etc etc. I understand you've had a couple kids, god bless you but if your husband met you at 130 lbs and 4 years later your 225!! Thats not cute..Try working out together go jogging/walking so you can fit into that sexy victoria secret number you've been eyeing, he'll appreciate it more than you will..trying having a fully prepared home cooked meal for him when he comes home from work, we all know a man's home should be his sanctuary is it not? Even better try giving him a blow job when he least expects it:) Im sure every man reading this would definately agree with me on that one LOL. Point is alot of MW dont like to hear where they are slacking and dont blame me for keeping it real...So ladies i understand and im sure your husband loves you of course he does he married you...But when his eyes start "wandering" and he is all of a sudden "working late" Ask yourself Am i getting to comfortable???? ;) When I first read this I was tempted to reply......AMEN!! ha Is there not SOME truth behind this?? I think a fair number of men would understand this post very well!!!
sally4sara Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 Ok...We all know MOST women cant handle the truth but here it is anyway..... Recently i posted "Why are married men allways the sexiest" and i know i got a couple of the W's pissed maybe i should of had a disclaimer but oh well..... Point is MW (NOT ALL) seem to me to get a little comfortable in a marriage ie: Gaining ALOT of weight, not cooking, not cleaning, not sexually adventurous, nagging your husband over the smallest issues etc etc etc. I understand you've had a couple kids, god bless you but if your husband met you at 130 lbs and 4 years later your 225!! Thats not cute..Try working out together go jogging/walking so you can fit into that sexy victoria secret number you've been eyeing, he'll appreciate it more than you will..trying having a fully prepared home cooked meal for him when he comes home from work, we all know a man's home should be his sanctuary is it not? Even better try giving him a blow job when he least expects it:) Im sure every man reading this would definately agree with me on that one LOL. Point is alot of MW dont like to hear where they are slacking and dont blame me for keeping it real...So ladies i understand and im sure your husband loves you of course he does he married you...But when his eyes start "wandering" and he is all of a sudden "working late" Ask yourself Am i getting to comfortable???? ;) Why would it make me mad that you see yourself and other women as second class citizens intended for nothing more than the sexual whim of men? IF you saw this as a good standard for life, it would apply to men too. You only want to have a go at women over it. And you claim to be a woman, so have a go at yourself over it all you want. But it has no bearing on my day to day and cannot make me mad at you even a little.
torranceshipman Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 This thread is just silly! If you have a good man he's going to be kind of disgusted by this thread anyway and would not expect a stepford wife-he just wants his W who he loves. When little girls like Nubian throw themselves at such men they'll laugh and tell them to stop demeaning themselves.... If I stay a size 2-4 for my whole life (v.probably), I'm doing that for myself, not a man.
NowhereToHide Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 For her to have this kind of viewpoint towards married women indeed shows that she is just jealous. She WANTS what they have, wants to be married and is jealous that she's not. The fact is, IF she ever gets married, she will learn the truth quickly. That marriage isn't a fantasy... where the wife wears makeup 24 hrs/day and stays home taking care of the perfectly-behaved children and greets her happy, gorgeous husband at the door with a martini and his slippers. And she will find that it isn't just the "frumpy, overweight wives who shun blow-jobs" that are getting cheated on or who are ignored in their marriages. Many times it doesn't make a damn difference what you look like or what you do. Just look at Halle Berry, Christie Brinkly, Tiger Woods wife. To suggest that the wives are solely responsible for "keeping" their husbands happy is immature and ignorant. And it shows how much growing up she has to do. Marriage takes a crap-load of work -- on both sides.
Woggle Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 Not trying to justify it but as good looking as Halle Berry, Christie Brinkly and the others are maybe they are nightmares to live with. A woman can be physically a ten but still be intolerable to be involved with.
seren Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 I suspect Nubian to be a troll, in fact I really hope she is. I am surprised more OP aren't rushing to defend that their affairs were based on love rather than the ability to give blow jobs, or to be 'simply perfect in every way'. How superficial is that? and how many relationships based on something so shallow can last for the long term? It sounds like blame shifting and posting to get a reaction, which of course it has achieved. Meanwhile back in the world of the real people, H is snoring with drool, his little paunch is showing where his t shirt doesn't quite meet his tracksuit bottoms and I look at him after 20 years and an A on his part and smile, because I am still in love with him after all this time, warts and all. Oh and me, yes have put on some weight having children and medication, but know what, he bought me a very special wedding ring on Xmas day, asked me to recommit to him and cried when I said yes. That's what I call love.
confusedinkansas Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Yawn.....Like i said MOST women CANT handle the TRUTH....... And bottom line if a man isnt getting what he needs/wants at home he WILL look else where. MW Step your game up!!!!:):) My 2 cents worth will probably be about the same as everyone elses...... BUT.... You mention "Working out" with your spouse to get rid of those horrible unwanted pounds:rolleyes: (as if WOMEN are the only ones that put on pounds over the years) Well, dearie! I did try that with my husband. Monday thru Friday - after work - ....He always went to the gym DRUNK! Yes, made it quite enjoyable for me to watch my husband hanging OVER the equipment because he was too drunk to use the equipment. - You mention a BJ every now & then.......Yep - gets those too. Where does the WOMAN'S GIVING end? Does it ever? When should a MAN step up to the plate & do the same things for their WIVES that they do for their mistresses? My goodness - the onesidedness of this is almost laughable!! The women that "Pay these men attention" (on whatever level) have NO CLUE what things are really like at home. (And visa versa) For the record: It's not that married women can't handle the truth. We see the truth day in & day out. It's the AFFAIR PARTNER that doesn't know the truth, the whole truth, & nothing but the truth
gopher Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 The truth is, if given the opportunity, some men will cheat even if their home is a happy one, and they have a great wife. But, to be honest, I don't understand why everytime there is a thread about women, they have to turn it around and make it about men...ie..potbellies and being stinky. Why not just deal with the question in a given thread, and then start a different one focused on men.
D-Lish Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 This thread is so ridiculous- The OP is such an obvious troll, amusing yes, but a troll nonetheless.
soserious1 Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 The truth is, if given the opportunity, some men will cheat even if their home is a happy one, and they have a great wife. But, to be honest, I don't understand why everytime there is a thread about women, they have to turn it around and make it about men...ie..potbellies and being stinky. Why not just deal with the question in a given thread, and then start a different one focused on men. Probably because the OP wasn't really looking to have any sort of discussion about anything.
2sure Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Cheating often has nothing to do with the spouse or the marriage, it is usually simply a selfish act. An OW who has never been married, or just a single woman spouting off on what makes a good or bad marriage is like someone without children giving parenting advice. We have all done both and then looked back and cant believe how stupid we sounded. Thats how you sound. Its forgivable.
NoIDidn't Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 The truth is, if given the opportunity, some men will cheat even if their home is a happy one, and they have a great wife. But, to be honest, I don't understand why everytime there is a thread about women, they have to turn it around and make it about men...ie..potbellies and being stinky. Why not just deal with the question in a given thread, and then start a different one focused on men. Why did this thread become about the men? Because the OP made it seem as if the men are perfect all the time and women have nothing to complain about. The truth is, women have just as much to complain about as men do when it comes to their spouses. I don't think its meant to bash men, just to open the eyes of the OP (good luck with that, though).
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