bornfighter Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I know this sounds strange but because of self esteem issues I question if I'm good enough to date anyone and Ive always been too picky for the fat girls that would come onto me and the good looking girls that like me I find it really hard to talk to them and I feel like I'm not good enough for them? So I posted a pic of my self on a popular site and I got a bunch of emails from girls and a most are really good looking and others gave no pic and I'm sitting here questioning if I should ignore the messages or reply and just hope they accept me for being a fat loser? I think I'm good looking just fat and scared of them rejecting me cause my weight...
TheBritishGuy Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Youre being ridiculous 60% of the US population is overweight and guess how many of those guys are in relationships or married? Youre a guy like the rest of us and to be completely honest your chances are really no lower or higher than anybody elses. Take that step and don't look back.. it's really that simple. Just do it.
Pizzaman81 Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I know this sounds strange but because of self esteem issues I question if I'm good enough to date anyone and Ive always been too picky for the fat girls that would come onto me and the good looking girls that like me I find it really hard to talk to them and I feel like I'm not good enough for them? So I posted a pic of my self on a popular site and I got a bunch of emails from girls and a most are really good looking and others gave no pic and I'm sitting here questioning if I should ignore the messages or reply and just hope they accept me for being a fat loser? I think I'm good looking just fat and scared of them rejecting me cause my weight... Sounds like an inside job to me.. By inside job, I mean it's all in the head. Clear that out first. Most of the time we scare ourselves with these chain reaction of fears... then we are crippled. Where in reality it may not even be the case at all. Think positive! And see the difference.
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