skydiveaddict Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I was thinking like after 9pm. He doesn't want to let her know he's focused on her during x-mas day- because that would be kinda heavy, ya know? So- after 9pm, a quick- "hey, merry x-mas! how was your day?" I think she's interested though. alpha, you,ve had too much eggnog i think dlish is right this guy has a good chance w/ this girl
D-Lish Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 alpha, you,ve had too much eggnog i think dlish is right this guy has a good chance w/ this girl A chance- yes. He will know if she likes him if he actually gets a one on one date. She is interested- but that is only half the battle.
skydiveaddict Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 scenester: date 1 , coffee date 2 dinner date 3: skydiving; she will love you forever
Author scenester Posted December 25, 2009 Author Posted December 25, 2009 Haha thanks guys! I know I still have a shot, just need to make the move now. BTW, skydiveaddict, how much is skydiving roughly now-a-days?
alphamale Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 alpha, you,ve had too much eggnog i think dlish is right this guy has a good chance w/ this girl whatever....i don't care at this point
skydiveaddict Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Haha thanks guys! I know I still have a shot, just need to make the move now. BTW, skydiveaddict, how much is skydiving roughly now-a-days? about 100.00 a jump for seven jumps (insructors included), then 21.00 a jump after that
skydiveaddict Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 and yes you DO still have a great shot GO FOR IT!
Author scenester Posted December 25, 2009 Author Posted December 25, 2009 Haha thanks man I'm deff gonna do that - I've always wanted too.
skydiveaddict Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 go for that girl you want & take her w/ you
Author scenester Posted December 25, 2009 Author Posted December 25, 2009 go for that girl you want & take her w/ you Haha will do!
skydiveaddict Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 (edited) really dude do it any one can take a girl out for dinner & a movie. but push her out the door @ 16000 ft & land safely on the ground w/ her (which will happen) & she will love you forever Edited December 25, 2009 by skydiveaddict
Author scenester Posted December 25, 2009 Author Posted December 25, 2009 really dude do it any one can take a girl out for dinner & a movie. but push her out the door @ 16000 ft & land safely on the ground w/ her (which will happen) & she will love you forever Haha yeah I bet the thrill is amazing.
BlueHarvest Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 whatever....i don't care at this point LOL, then why are you still posting? Quintessential forum poster. You'd rather keep posting negative comments to save face rather then admit you were wrong. I think he should just do what feels right. Honestly ALL advice on here should be taken with a grain of salt. People tend to lump other situations into their own lives and how they performed. My guess with you, context of this interaction with you, and your name, make me guess you are probably the "fake jerk". By that I mean, you saw a real jerk aka 'an Alpha male' get ladies, you were a nice guy that got friend-zoned too often, and thought you would try being a jerk to get girls too. Except now you've found out that your lifestyle, at best, brings you booty, but no satisifaction from any sort of relationship like you have always wanted. Attempting to be someone you aren't will never amount to any sort of progress. Sorry to post this on Christmas day, but if that offends you, then I guess it hits pretty close to home then doesn't it? Leave the guy alone and let him find out. There is only ONE person in the world who knows if she likes him...and that is her. He will find out one way or another when he makes a move. And that's all we can do, everyone of us.
Author scenester Posted December 26, 2009 Author Posted December 26, 2009 So I texted her any everything went well, we're getting together Tue. But we were talking for a little bit then she just stopped texting back so I may of bored her LOL.
skydiveaddict Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 So I texted her any everything went well, we're getting together Tue. But we were talking for a little bit then she just stopped texting back so I may of bored her LOL. it's Christmas she probably had family/ other things going on. DONT push too hard!
andrewc Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 Yeah! Wait until these Christmas days pass. If you say you've been friendzoned with her, ask her what are her plans for New Year's Eve. Maybe maybe you two can get together and then try to make a decisive move or something, find out if it's still worth 'pushing'. Also with texting, don't be to insistent with this, try to meet her face to face more, maybe she'll realize then your intentions. But, be gentle, let her without many clues of your intentions, tell her that you would want to meet her or something, as people meet more over this time of year. Try something, mate! This is my opinion.
bentley Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 well I'd say go for it... let her know whats up, be up front with her, no bull****. Keep it simple and direct. and honest.
Author scenester Posted December 27, 2009 Author Posted December 27, 2009 Yeah, we're getting together Tue . I just hope the whole ignoring thing was cause of Christmas and not because she isn't interested like that, cause I do that to girls I'm not really interested in being more than friends with. LOL
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