Author Pizzaman81 Posted December 25, 2009 Author Posted December 25, 2009 why are you asking for advice on how to manipulate people? I wasn't asking for advice initially, just asking what I should do at this point. People just started giving me advice on how I shouldn't have told her, etc...
Author Pizzaman81 Posted December 25, 2009 Author Posted December 25, 2009 well, then its over! Ya! OVER! *grabs a beer with peaceful guy* WAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAA. Ok anyway thanks for the insight dude. Have a good holiday.
Peaceful Guy Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Ya! OVER! *grabs a beer with peaceful guy* WAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAA. Ok anyway thanks for the insight dude. Have a good holiday. well. okay. i wasn't trying to belittle your feelings, or say everything is super simple. this is why i think you're cool- "That's why I didn't lie to her. I was strait forward.." other people started telling you to be a dick, so i got worked up about it. ive seen nice guys do stupid **** to people because users told them they should. you might not want to hear it from me, but i think your awesome. i think you're a strait up cool ass, think for himself, treat people with kindness and respect kind of person. so, im telling you, if she wants to end it if you continue to see other people, and you can't do that, then you should end it. that's the way to be honest and good here. im not telling you you should do that (end it), because of course that's your deal.. but, in my opinion, if you let this one go, or worse.. treat her with anything less than the respect she deserves.. you'll regret it.
Author Pizzaman81 Posted December 25, 2009 Author Posted December 25, 2009 well. okay. i wasn't trying to belittle your feelings, or say everything is super simple. The internet is so hard to tell. Anyway, I wasn't angry at you for that. I agreeded with you that's why i grabbed a beer with you.
pandagirl Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I don't really see what the problem is. She asked you a question. You answered. She wasn't comfortable with what she heard, so she was honest and now is going to move on. Not every woman is going to have a problem with it, just so happens this one does.
scenester Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 You don't need envious people in your life.
JohnP82 Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I'm in the category of people that would be turned off if I was dating a girl and she said she was multi dating. It feels too much like job interviewing. I'm looking for work related to my degrees now and I don't want to feel like I'm interviewing for my personal and professional life. It's not worth competing with other guys unless I'm going to get paid for it. I think you did the right thing in telling her the truth. If you lose her then she is free to find someone that can focus just on getting to know her and you can date as many other women as you want.
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Am I the only one that thinks its wrong to not tell someone you are multi-dating? I think a true gentleman would tell. No, you're not the only one. I don't like multi-dating. I think it cheapens the experience. Makes it harder to get close to one person. But I guess if that's what you're going for - avoiding emotional intimacy, go for it, peeps. 1
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Nothing is gonna bad if talk to her wisely. Trust me, it will be ok. I've found the way to talk to girl here **link removed** Try it, okay? :lmao: Cause Pizzaman seems to be having trouble talking to girls. Wouldn't you like to be talking to MORE girls and having MORE noise to deal with, Pizzaman? LMFAO...wow, that was rich.
threebyfate Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 So today I got a message from one of the girls I'm going on dates with, that she says she feels insecure about me dating other women, and that we should stop seeing each other unless I stop dating them. She doesn't want to dive into serious dating but wants me to stop dating the other women.This is not your problem that she feels insecure about multi-dating. I give you a pat on the back for your disclosure! In the past, when multi-dating, I always gave full disclosure. Just one of those ethics issues, so that guys had the opportunity to walk, if it bothered them. Only once did anyone have a problem with it and that's because the two met face-to-face and one guy's ego, couldn't handle what he perceived as his competition. Keep in mind that he knew it was happening and was fine until he met him.
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