JohnnyB Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I recently initiated NC with my ex...It is Hard. But I am committed to myself and I will not contact her. ...but that doesn't make anything easier... I fall asleep thinking about us...I wake up thinking about her... But that is the past...which I love holding onto... But things aren't how they were...that's something I need to remind myself. I found this video a while ago, and watch it when I am holding on too much... Do I believe that my best years are behind me?... It is a video made by an awesome Pastor...and I hope it helps you all the same way it helped me. Merry Christmas Everyone... May your hearts be warmed by love you deserve. Part 1 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6kVw2vz7xII Part 2 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=to9ZHKm85tI&NR=1
teanoranges Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 After a while the thoughts get fewer and fewer, you don't cry as long when you do cry, and you start to realize life is still happening... that's not to say you don't get thoughts or go a day without a thought... but it gets better.. then a little bad, then better, bad, etc.
sotagoon Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Thank you so much for the link to that video! Although I'm in tears and it hurts so much..I needed to see/hear that. Merry Christmas
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