sadgirl1 Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Hey there, its been two months now since my ex left me for his Ex girlfriend! Today I got a mail from his Mom wishing me Merry Christmas she also said she is very sorry for what happend and that this is how he wanted it and that he is happy! And that I will find someone else with time! I burst into tears after I read it! The Pain came up so hard that I barely can stand it! He has been so happy with me and said she wasnt good for him and that he doesnt ever want her back cause i was better for him and now he is all so happy That feels like someone is cutting my heart off my chest it hurts like hell and I can´t stop crying! I know you all will be saying I have to move on I just wanted to write my Pain down here! I feel like i just wanna die that is too much for me to handle
HeavenOrHell Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Aw hun that was incredibly insensitive of her to send you that text, there was just no need. I hope you're ok Hey there, its been two months now since my ex left me for his Ex girlfriend! Today I got a mail from his Mom wishing me Merry Christmas she also said she is very sorry for what happend and that this is how he wanted it and that he is happy! And that I will find someone else with time! I burst into tears after I read it! The Pain came up so hard that I barely can stand it! He has been so happy with me and said she wasnt good for him and that he doesnt ever want her back cause i was better for him and now he is all so happy That feels like someone is cutting my heart off my chest it hurts like hell and I can´t stop crying! I know you all will be saying I have to move on I just wanted to write my Pain down here! I feel like i just wanna die that is too much for me to handle
Brightmoon Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Aww!! ((((((((((hugs))))))))) I am so sorry you have had the wounds reopened by that email. I hear your pain. Your ex's mum means to be kind, but she should have been more careful as to what she said. Should have been more sensitive. These things hurt so much. I want to say we are here on LS to give support. You take care SG...
thegoose Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Hey sadgirl...I want to change my name to sadboy. It has been 3 months for me...I am trying so hard to move on and be that better person that has learned so much from my devastating heartbreak. My former lover is with someone new and I hear she is really happy. I still struggle to beleive it's over with us. I also received a beautiful email from her mom and sister wishing me a merry xmas and that I am great person and deserve the best. I responded very nicely saying I think of them often and that they are great people ( If they only how hurt I am) I still think of my X constantly and love her with all my heart. I will say the fast forward technique has helped me become almost fuctional at times and I highly recomend it. http://ezinearticles.com/?The-Fast-Forward-Technique---A-Strategy-For-Getting-Over-a-Break-Up&id=1499237 Merry Christmas and I send you my love....
kimmi Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 (((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))) When we talk about things through email it is really hard to know true emotions of the person. I really hope that this was not done to intentionally to hurt you. I am going through email chats with my kids step mom and most if the time I know that I take i so wrong. The last one she sent me I told her that I would not answer through email that I wanted to call her. I know one thing for sure that if I did answer through the email that it would have hurt her. I guess I am trying to say maybe she meant the best with the email to you and did not mean to hurt you as she did. we are here for you
gaudi Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Yeah but saying she didn't mean to hurt anyone is one thing, but why not just say how she is sorry things never worked out WITHOUT mentioning the fact that HE is so happy now. TOO insensitive for me I'm afraid, it was unecessary. SADGIRL, all I can say is we are here for you, it will get easier in time, we're all going through the same thing. Keep posting hun.............it helps.
kimmi Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Gaudi, I do agree with you and it should not have been said at all however I always try to see positive from things ... And trust me this is a fault of mine.
gaudi Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Gaudi, I do agree with you and it should not have been said at all however I always try to see positive from things ... And trust me this is a fault of mine. OK kimmi, if you try and see things from a positive side, then you are doing the right thing (even if other people aren't) and I respect you for doing so. Would like to hear more from SADGIRL too though, hope your OK hun xx
Zeegagge Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Hang in there Sadgirl! If I were anywhere near Germany I would hop on the Autobahn and come give you a hug.
Author sadgirl1 Posted December 25, 2009 Author Posted December 25, 2009 Zeegagge Thats cool but unfortunately you´re not anywhere near Germany right? I´m feeling very bad! Was crying the whole day today it still hurts I hope I´ll get over it soon...my friends keep telling me I should fall in Love again that would be something to help me out of this but how could I fall in Love when I love someone else and am still crying over him???!!! Thats not possible... I dont want this to last any longer it sucks like hell
Back2dabasics Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 time. time is the only answer. time will help you get over him. just be patient. let it all out. then when you got everything out, try to things that will distract you. go out to clubs and parties or you can focus on your career goals or in your education. try to remain strong.
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