b52s Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I don't know if it's subliminal....but when you're talking to a woman or something, and she mentions the boyfriend in conversation, is she doing it so you don't bother hitting on her, or maybe she's saving you the trouble of asking her out if she has a boyfriend, so she better say something like, " Yeah, I'm picking my boyfriend up at the airport You know, to give you a clue? Or are they just saying that as a declarative statement?
betamanlet Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I don't know if it's subliminal....but when you're talking to a woman or something, and she mentions the boyfriend in conversation, is she doing it so you don't bother hitting on her, or maybe she's saving you the trouble of asking her out if she has a boyfriend, so she better say something like, " Yeah, I'm picking my boyfriend up at the airport You know, to give you a clue? Or are they just saying that as a declarative statement? It's to let you know you have no chance with her.
Yukikazi Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 It's to let you know you have no chance with her. Bull****.. she is **** testing you to see if you wuss out, turn tail and run.
alphamale Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I don't know if it's subliminal....but when you're talking to a woman or something, and she mentions the boyfriend in conversation, is she doing it so you don't bother hitting on her, or maybe she's saving you the trouble of asking her out if she has a boyfriend, so she better say something like, " Yeah, I'm picking my boyfriend up at the airport You know, to give you a clue? Or are they just saying that as a declarative statement? its to tell you not to bother - she is declared for
start-fresh Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Bull****.. she is **** testing you to see if you wuss out, turn tail and run. It's attitudes like that that force women to become bitches to keep guys from hitting on them.
meerkat stew Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Bull****.. she is **** testing you to see if you wuss out, turn tail and run. Pretty much this. Have seen the BF turn out to be fake so many times, even 20 minutes after he is first mentioned, that when I hear it, it's just noise until I'm actually shaking the dude's hand.
Peaceful Guy Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I don't know if it's subliminal....but when you're talking to a woman or something, and she mentions the boyfriend in conversation, is she doing it so you don't bother hitting on her, or maybe she's saving you the trouble of asking her out if she has a boyfriend, so she better say something like, " Yeah, I'm picking my boyfriend up at the airport You know, to give you a clue? Or are they just saying that as a declarative statement? god, that one cracks me up sometimes.. but it really can mean anything from, im trying not to have sex with you in my mind to, oh yeah im picking up my boyfriend from the airport.. thats cool..
laRubiaBonita Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 would you rather the chic say... "i have to pick up Bill at the airport." are you then supposed to know that Bill is the boyfriend? isn't it better that she say boyfriend?
Kamille Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 its to tell you not to bother - she is declared for Yup. I usually drop the boyfriend line to make sure guys I meet know I'm taken.
Art_Critic Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 its to tell you not to bother - she is declared for Agreed Bull****.. she is **** testing you to see if you wuss out, turn tail and run. Yeah.. that's what she is doing.. she wants you to hit on her anyhow Pretty much this. Have seen the BF turn out to be fake so many times, even 20 minutes after he is first mentioned, that when I hear it, it's just noise until I'm actually shaking the dude's hand. Fake or not it isn't this waving green light.. it is a red light.. Hitting on a woman that either considers herself or is in a relationship is just a waste of time. Show some balls and go find a girl who is attainable
Kamille Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 It's attitudes like that that force women to become bitches to keep guys from hitting on them. hear hear! Sure, maybe girls invent boyfriends to turn guys down - but the message is still the same: not interested. If I were single and interested in a guy, I wouldn't invent a bogus boyfriend.
Peaceful Guy Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Show some balls and go find a girl who is attainable show her your balls?
Peaceful Guy Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 ..I wouldn't invent a bogus boyfriend. and how are we supposed to know thats true? "what if she made him up?.. maybe ive still got a chance.. hmmm.." i will say though.. it can be a little infuriating to have a girl drop the "my boyfriend" about a billion times in a conversation when your not interested in her romantically! oh well, it IS pretty funny!
laRubiaBonita Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 and how are we supposed to know thats true? "what if she made him up?.. maybe ive still got a chance.. hmmm.." i will say though.. it can be a little infuriating to have a girl drop the "my boyfriend" about a billion times in a conversation when your not interested in her romantically! oh well, it IS pretty funny! you do not know if it true... but why would you press the issue anyways? and if you have no relationship type interest and she keep bring up the bf, maybe her bf is a really possesive dick who will beat your arse..... she is being nice by warning you.
Kamille Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 and how are we supposed to know thats true? "what if she made him up?.. maybe ive still got a chance.. hmmm.." Notice I said: were I interested in a guy... I wouldn't invent a bogus bf. Let the record show that, yes, back when I was single, I have resorted to inventing bogus boyfriends to turn guys down. I know I know I must be evil somehow - but the point remains the same. I wasn't interested, the guy was usually insistant so the bogus-bf was a way out. Times I was interested, my biggest priority was figuring out how to give the guy my number. i will say though.. it can be a little infuriating to have a girl drop the "my boyfriend" about a billion times in a conversation when your not interested in her romantically! oh well, it IS pretty funny! Totally - I can understand. But I've found you usually only have to bring the bf up once to get the message out.
betamanlet Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Bull****.. she is **** testing you to see if you wuss out, turn tail and run. That's stupid. If a woman has a boyfriend, I want nothing to do with her, and I wouldn't want a woman who says she has a boyfriend, when she doesn't, just to see if I have balls...
Yukikazi Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 That's stupid. If a woman has a boyfriend, I want nothing to do with her, and I wouldn't want a woman who says she has a boyfriend, when she doesn't, just to see if I have balls... Considering your other threads.. this shouldn't be a problem since women seem to run away from you.
laRubiaBonita Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 That's stupid. If a woman has a boyfriend, I want nothing to do with her, and I wouldn't want a woman who says she has a boyfriend, when she doesn't, just to see if I have balls... yep.... that would be a major turn off!
laRubiaBonita Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Considering your other threads.. this shouldn't be a problem since women seem to run away from you. why are regurgitating.... ?
Kamille Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 That's stupid. If a woman has a boyfriend, I want nothing to do with her, and I wouldn't want a woman who says she has a boyfriend, when she doesn't, just to see if I have balls... That's what I'm trying to say (but feel free to ignore if you truly believe women are evil manipulators) Women don't invent boyfriends to see if you have balls. We invent boyfriends 'cause we're not interested.
betamanlet Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 That's what I'm trying to say (but feel free to ignore if you truly believe women are evil manipulators) Women don't invent boyfriends to see if you have balls. We invent boyfriends 'cause we're not interested. I'm in complete agreement with you. I doubt many if any women lie about having a boyfriend to "test" you.. THey are saying they are not interested when they say they have a boyfriend.
insecureeeyep Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Women don't only talk about their boyfriends in conversation with males because they want them to know they have one, sometimes they just happen to come up naturally in conversation. That said, in the past when men have been hitting on me or flirting too much, I have dropped the "my boyfriend" card but I never made one up. I always did legitimately have a boyfriend. Would men rather the women not mention their boyfriends until they go to ask them out/ for their number?
Art_Critic Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Women waitress's have also been known to wear wedding bands when they aren't really married to to ward off all the lonely guys hitting on them or getting the wrong idea about their friendliness... Some guys just don't get it that a waitress is just at work making money to pay her rent/bills and isn't working to find a date
Author b52s Posted December 24, 2009 Author Posted December 24, 2009 Women waitress's have also been known to wear wedding bands when they aren't really married to to ward off all the lonely guys hitting on them or getting the wrong idea about their friendliness... Some guys just don't get it that a waitress is just at work making money to pay her rent/bills and isn't working to find a date Well, anything is possible. ;-) Hell, I know women who wear wedding bands to chase off men, just....in general. At least waitresses have a reason. Actually, the woman I'm referring to, DOES actually have a boyfriend. I think when I first "befriended her" she used to be somewhat friendly with me...I think she just started dating this guy.....she was into costuming and Sci-Fi conventions, so I'd run into her at these events as an acquaintence.... and she put up this hot "Vampire" outfit....she had a hot bod, and she fit well in it. And I made some sort of flirtatious comment under the pic...something like "I wouldn't mind ya suckin' the life out of me!" Wink wink And she said, "LOL, nah you would have enough to suck" or something like that, we were kind of having fun with it...laughing. Then like the next day she sends me a private message saying, "Hey, don't put comments like that by my pics....it makes my boyfriend jealous" And I said, "Ah, so how about I just keep it between the two of us, eh? lol" After that, she's been "short" with me ever since. LOL Party pooper...she puts a pic up like that, and when someone makes a comment, she (or her jealous boyfriend) makes a stink out of it. So when I say, "Hello" or like today, "Merry Christmas" she 'll say it back, and it's always in the second sentence, "Well, gotta run....talk to ya later" Never really actually got to KNOW her all to well, after that incident....even on a friendly basis. Now we were getting along well until that occured. But, she IS a striking woman. But, I would never actually PURSUE a woman that was taken. Of course, she is in a LDR <shrug> They live on opposite coasts, her right here...and him in the west coast
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