daddypop1 Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I was talking to a friend of mine today and her cousin just happens to be a woman that has screwed around with my wife's new boyfriend for the past 15 years. This woman has alot of recent texts from this dumb ass, and they are pretty sexual. A couple of the texts indicate that even tho he is with my wife he still plans on seeing this other woman still. Im pretty sure my wife thinks that this ****head is such a good guy. This woman wants to forward the texts to me and have me forward them to my wife. Should I do it or not?
It_Is_What_It_Is Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I don't think it is your place to forward this email/text to your wife. She left you for him, let her deal with what comes with infidelity. You should be drinking lager now that you know the poor choices your wife can make. Sorry i didn't read your other posts, so not sure if you are still with your wife or have divorced or reconciling. Whatever the case, she is eating her cake, let her eat the stone in it as well.
It_Is_What_It_Is Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I have just quickly scan through your first post. Looks like one for Jerry Springer or Maury. What make you think she is going to change? She cheated on you before you guys got married with your friend, and again with your brother and continue to do so with others. You probably married a freebie whore - sorry to say. You need to ask yourself if you got esteem issues. Now you have found that her new bf is sleeping around you asking if you need to tell her. Erase her from your memory. Next time she would probably sleep with your uncle; dad or another close family member. This woman know no boundaries.
Author daddypop1 Posted December 24, 2009 Author Posted December 24, 2009 She will legally be my ex wife in about 4 months. Had temporary divorce hearing on Dec. 10. I am not trying to get her back at all. I think I am just trying to make her feel some of the bull**** that Ive had to go thru for a long time. When it comes down to it tho, it doesnt really matter. She is going to be really sorry in the long run.
kimmi Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I would get a friend of yours that she does not know to do it for you ... I mean really think about it.. From you it will be that you want her back and care about her but from a complete stranger she will be clueless and everyne can watch her reactions to all of this ... LOL DAMN I SO WISH I WAS A DUST BUNNY AT TIMES LIKE THIS :bunny::bunny: LOL
CBIIS1 Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 No, no, no ,no. This will mess with your mojo. Just smile and wave, eat'em and smile, whatever. She has to learn the long hard way and you have no business messing with her proper education. You finding out was just part of natural justice. Take it for what it is but don't get mixed up. It was her screw up and you were an innocent bystander, that's all. Let it ride.
nobmagnet Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 bite it. leave alone for now. RED CARD inyour back pocketxxxxxxxxxx hey santas been here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! waiting for himto scratch........then scab soz haaaa
kimmi Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 forward the with a Merry Christmas note attached .... Sorry not into cheaters at all ....
Kantor Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Touchy subject, but if she doesn't want to be with you anymore I don't think its your place. Perhaps the cousin should be the one to tell her.
Author daddypop1 Posted December 25, 2009 Author Posted December 25, 2009 I think I might have someone else do it or just leave it alone. Looking back, I cant believe all the crap I have gone thru. The past 13 years have been like the worst episode of Jerry Springer. It is pretty pathetic. I have been a very compassionate person for her, as she has always came back to me after not that long making me feel sorry for her and her childhood, past, etc. I wanted to believe that she was a good person, and she seemed ok for the past few years. For the first 5 years of our relationship, I didnt really know about anything that she had done. There is alot more that I havent shared on this forum yet. Most people cant even believe my story. I just found out from my daughter that she has introduced this douchebag to my children last weekend. I hope you all dont get the wrong impression of me or my situation. I am a very intelligent person and I dont live in a trailer park. I just had kids and cared too much for the wrong person. The sad thing is, she appears to be happy and not think she is doing anything wrong. I have pretty much cut all contact with her for awhile now. I told her not to call me unless there was an emergency or to just text me. Hopefully karma comes back and kicks her ass someday but by then I probably wont care.
CBIIS1 Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I'm in a similar boat. I am quite intelligent but the woman I married came from a very crude environment. Our kids think she is dumb as s**t at times. I loved her and could not see how ugly she had become, how hard and selfish. She is blaming me for this. She was a victim of incest but has now re-embraced the family that let this happen. Anyway, life has a strange way of making things right. I'm the bad guy right now except with my kids who know the truth. That's fine. I live for those kids not the rest of the world. Rest assured yours will get it in the end because of herself. They always do. Move on and move as far away from this toxic B as possible. Your goodness and positive vibe held her up for far too long. She now has to go on with her own stuff, good luck. Run and hide and don't mess with any aspect of her for your own good. When you stop thinking of her you will finally be free. We all want to be there.
nobmagnet Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 sorry i was tired wheni wrote my last one. Let her do it.information is king but trust me....................it will hurt like hell. If you are strong enough to take it......do it. of not as I said say to her you need it but not not yet. all my heart neet x
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