Lostnconfused78 Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Ok so here my sitiuation there have been some trust issues with him..against me.. which there was nothing going on.. he just assumed.. I went out with a friend(Guy) after a fight with hubby.to talk which I can talk to about what was going on with me and my husband... well.. that all in all really did our relationship in.. in my eyes.. cause if the trust isnt there. Well he decided to get drunk one night and started sending this friend (which he's known all our marriage and I've known for more than 15 yrs) messages.. like you need to get outta our life.. you've caused nothing but problems. blah blah.. he's always had a great deal of jealousy since day one.. I let all my friends go when we got married except a few because most were Guys. well now I regret that too. I've never cheated on him and wouldnt. But I have now told him I think we need to separate because I dont want to live with someone watching my every move.reading emails the whole nine.. and thats how its been for the last 8 yrs. I love him.. but in love isnt the word anymore.. anyhow last night he sent me a text message while we were finishing the xmas shopping for the kids. that he wanted a booty call as friends I was like wtf.. dude I dont know wether to be hurt because he wants sex and thats all that matters to him, or what to think. he keeps telling me he loves me "as friends" which I know is wrong but if it helps him feel better I will allow it. I just dont know what to do.. do I suffer for the rest of my life with a man that cant trust me.. cause I have guy friends.. or do I just move on with my life with my children? I am so torn and its killing me. Cause I really think its time to move on.. but my children any advice would help.. just some insight.. please.
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