Author dunnogirl22 Posted December 25, 2009 Author Posted December 25, 2009 so whats the problem? you can't have everything in one person I dont think im asking for too much. He is a great guy and we do have a good relationship where we do communicate, just not so clearly when it comes to issues in our sex life, or rather lack there of. it doesnt bother me that we havnt had a sex because I really feel we have a real foundation in our relationship. the problem is that I feel if i do something for him such as give him oral, then he should return the favor. kimflute: I think your right, except I rather atleast confront him about how I am feeling then to throw away an otherwise great relationship if hes willing to. But i think I am making excuses for him because these are things that has told me and the way he acts when things are progressing and then something happens. Appreciate the advice.
Author dunnogirl22 Posted December 26, 2009 Author Posted December 26, 2009 I was asking more to find out why he wouldn't return the favor of performing oral on her. Otherwise, yes, I admit that so far he sounds very selfish in the sex department. Oh and he has never said he wouldnt or that he doesnt like doing it, he just hasnt. The entire situation sounds more difficult then it should be. I have never had a boyfriend that didnt take any sort of charge, but im going to talk to him and then decide what direction to go. (Just doesnt seem like something to bring up randomely on christmas) And as far as living with him goes, It doesnt seem like a big deal. If something were to happen, I could easily just move into my own place. But I really feel that once I address it, he will get the picture. Thanks again for all the different advice.
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