MissingHerBad Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Dear loveshack ... and members of course I've been with my girlfriend for just over 1.5 months (not long at all) ... prior to this I've been a so called bachelor for the past 6 years. When we are together our relationship is unstoppable however when we are apart it seems like she has other things on her mind. The only time we say good night is when I initiate even though I can see her online Facebooking. She carries a condom in her purse still. Often, I don't really know where she is (she says all I have to do is ask). Even though I foot the bill for most everything (she is currently unemployed, which is fine) she still finds the time to buy things for herself. She's got tons of guy friends and is moving to the mountain to live with one for a month, free of rent while his parents are away. Recently she made a comment about when we break up (not sure if that is normal but it seemed like she had already put a deadline on this). Now that Ive listed all the negative traits I must admit there are many positives as well. She says I am her life and that she will never cheat on me. When we do talk and text it is generally mushy and nice. When we are together its hard not to feel the love and the sex is extremely passionate. I suppose my question is whether or not Im dealing with this right. I constantly feel jealous and like I should be breaking up with her. Im used to past relationships being in my biz, knowing where I am, who Im with etc etc... all things I find normal ... This girl generally doesn't me or provide details on her own life unless I ask. I know this is still early but I can't help but feel like something is off. She tells me that with other relationship she was much more involved with knowing and played he role and in this she doesn't feel the necessity. We dated for several months prior to calling this a relationship. In the beginning she was super passive but has slowly come around. She's a pisces and a little bit of a free spirit. Does anyone have any thoughts?
FilthMerchant Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Get out of there she has already cheated or will soon Red Flag - carries condom in purse Red Flag - tons of guy friends Triple red flag - moving in with guy friend
lecasanova Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 yeah i smell something fishy here. don't worry too much about it though. just play it cool and don't let jealousy turn you into a badass demon, simply wait things out and be patient, only in the event where you really suspect her of cheating, perhaps her facebook page is being flooded with a certain guy's comments or something do you take action. otherwise, i all you can do is suspect, i recommend laying off the accusations and play things slowly. you can never be too sure and you don't want to blame her only for her to blame you for not trusting her right? haha.
DustySaltus Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Why is she going to live on the mountain "Rent Free" with some dude? Why doesn't she stay with you? What's up with the condom in the purse? What's up with the talk of a break up? I know the answers to these questions, do you? This has DISASTER written all over it....you got to really take a step back and think this through.
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