Shylo Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 (edited) My boyfriend and I met in one of our college classes. Next semester we will be in all the same classes. The problem is I'm not sure I want to be with him anymore. The reasons are as followed: I started to realize that he has a personal hygiene problem. He doesn't change his clothing very often and he often smells like bad b.o. It's really a HUGE turn off..not to mention really unhealthy for both of us. I've already had one urinary track infection, I went to the doctors and talked about it. I then proceeded to tell him about what happened..I told him he needs to take better care of himself..the day after I told him that, he showed up smelling like pasta and B.O!!! Please don't say: "it's gross, WTF are you thinking?"....I know...I just started to realize these things... I really care a lot about him...but some of the things he does also annoy me. Sometimes he'll put his hands up like paws and cry like a puppy..he's just messing around..but to me it's really childish and really annoying..at first it was cute, but now it's just like..wow can you PLEASE stop doing that? am I just being shallow? I'm also worried because it's like a day before x-mas...I told him already that i need some space..and I'm thinking..but I think I want to end it. The other thing is that we will be in all the same classes next semester and we have the same group of friends...plus we are suppose to do something with our friends for new years eve...I'm scared about it being awkward. What do I do? please help me. I'm really frustrated. Edited December 24, 2009 by Shylo
neoskunk Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I'm no relationship expert but have you tried talking to him about the stuff you don't like? I'm not sure about the personal hygiene issue but in terms of the annoying stuff maybe he doesn't even realize what he is doing. If there is any part of him you like or if you care to continue should things become better I would give him a chance. More specifics would help. Such as how long you have been dating and how long you have known the group of friends you are supposed to hang out with on new years.
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