kimmi Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Okay, So ran into a ex and wow so wanting him back in my life ( NOT TO CURRENT EX) He is amazing !!! We talked for a bit and set a date for next Saturday night. He works out of town and will be back then. Wanted to go on a date tonight however I said no to it. We were on the net for hours just chatting about things he is a ex from 18 years ago. I moved away 2500 miles away and that's why it ended. For the longest time he would send me flowers and would call me all the time he even came out there for Christmas one year. He is truly a amazing person. There is nothing that we disagree on. Through out the years we have kept in touch and even went out every once in awhile for drinks (came back 8 years ago). However at that time I was head over heels for someone else. I am scared and excited at the same time .. I do not know what to do, It has been along time since I cared about what a guy has thought about me. I was explaining to him tonight that I have changed a lot and I am more sheltered. He said let's see about that, I know when we are together on Saturday you will be miss kimmi again. I was stunned, he also said do not worry about what I think I know you better then anyone of your ex's do.(he is right he does) Okay now I am rumbling and excited and WOW.. i WILL SO BE AWAKE ALL NIGHT NOW !!! WOWZERS
SaraSmile Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Kimmi, that is so exciting! I have a couple questions for you, and sorry I don't know the answers if you have already posted them elsewhere. Is either of you married or in a serious relationship? That could be a real problem, but if you are both single, I think this relationship has great potential. The other thing is, did you really love this guy and did he really love you? If so, and the reason you broke up was an external one like distance, and that's not a problem any longer, you have excellent chances, and it can be really fantastic because you do know each other so well, you have shared roots, shared memories... I am so happy for you! Just make sure he is not married...
Author kimmi Posted December 24, 2009 Author Posted December 24, 2009 LOL i know. I asked him right away married yet.. He laughed and said uhm NOPE! Then he asked me, I said not a chance . I do not believe that I will ever marry. We talked a lot. I have been back here for 8 years and nothing gets me to move . I really like where I live so this is not a factor anymore, We have always been in tune with one another and we have always been there for one another. All his words were perfect last night, I have known him since grade 7 and we dated when I was 21. Now turning 40. Our family's get along, We both love distance in our relationships. I am very independent and do not like hanging out all the time with a guy. I have kids that are older and he has a son the is 8 (mine are 14/18/20) great babysitting ages ha ha ha. Great to be able to express what I feel without thinking he is going to freak out... He loves to talk out his problems and not hold any of them in, Myself I HAVE to talk about them because It will eat me up until I do. It just seems awesome. I am very excited. I think that it is weird. I have been going through crap with the current ex and all of a sudden magic appears out of no where. I say magic because we belong together.. M ex and I were to different and our family's did not like each other, My mother really gave him a chance for 5 years then finally she told me that she can not handle what he does to me and she can no longer support this relationship with him and I, He was welcome there however he best be on his best behavior around them. His parents can not stand me because they think that I am a gold digger. Well I am not, I have always supported myself and my kids, I have always worked and made my own money , If anything I supported him for a few months. Needless to say we are not ment to be. But I am excited still for this weekend. LOL even his ex is happy that we got in contact , SHe said I knew you and him are ment to be I always have known that. That's why I never liked you.. (said something on facebook).. Date is on the 2nd of January so I will keep you posted on the events. I hope I do not chicken out lol
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