XKatieX Posted December 24, 2009 Share Posted December 24, 2009 (edited) I'm deciding whether to fight for this and hold on or whether to just let this go altogether. As some of you may know I've posted before saying that me and my boyfriend split after 2 1/2 years together, he wasn't talking to me for about a month. My story is here for those that do not know. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t211044/ As of a few weeks ago he started talking to me again, just keeping things casual. He recently got a new job, the hours he is given are crazy and I hardly ever get to even talk to him, we also live in separate states (1hr 10 mins away) So where as before I got to see him during the weekends or some time during the week, now with the new job I haven't seen him in 3 months going on 4. I feel like he doesn't want this badly enough to really put forth all the effort that this needs to be given. He said that he still does care about me, and he doesn't want to jump right into things, but at the same time his actions are not showing that he's trying. I don't want to be with anyone else so that's why I'm willing to do whatever it take, the problem is I don't know what it is going to take, I don't know how to keep this together. I don't want to lose him, I just want to reach out to him, but it feels like he is never there! ugh. Edited December 24, 2009 by XKatieX Link to post Share on other sites
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