virgin Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I hate my life and I feel cursed that women hate me and never wanted to be with me. You couldn't imagine what its like to have the opposite sex as accessible as a trip to the moon. I believe that the government is polluting all the women about me. They are spreading lies. I goto the Supermarket and women COMPLETELY IGNORE ME like I don't exist. I'm 38 and was never even kissed. Why was I put on this earth to suffer and twist in the wind? My self confidence is like **** in the toilet, I can't even work anymore. I was told I'm a candidate for disability due to my anxiety and other issues.
jw90063 Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I hate my life and I feel cursed that women hate me and never wanted to be with me. You couldn't imagine what its like to have the opposite sex as accessible as a trip to the moon. I believe that the government is polluting all the women about me. They are spreading lies. I goto the Supermarket and women COMPLETELY IGNORE ME like I don't exist. I'm 38 and was never even kissed. Why was I put on this earth to suffer and twist in the wind? My self confidence is like **** in the toilet, I can't even work anymore. I was told I'm a candidate for disability due to my anxiety and other issues. Have you received any professional help with your anxiety and self esteem issues? I have anxiety too, so I know how you are feeling. I haven't been in a large amount of relationships, but I managed to have my share because I wanted it bad enough. You just have to put yourself out there, if you really want it. There has to be someone for you. At your age, if you haven't got some therapy though, I think its time.
Lovelybird Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Did you see a therapist? I didn't believe therapist before, but now I think a good christian therapist really helps. Maybe you have some issues in your heart, and you need others to help you. It is really not about other women, it is about yourself. Your inner life can shape your outside world. Have you considered this? Do you have other supporting and caring relationships?
D-Jam Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I think I'm going to stay off this board for a few days. The vast amount of crybabies popping up is ridiculous. Let's even say this is not a troll post...I'll agree that virgin should do two things... 1) Hire an escort and get laid. 2) See a therapist. At least he'll get a smile for a moment.
Yukikazi Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Go gay.. see if you get better luck batting for the other team?
jw90063 Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Go gay.. see if you get better luck batting for the other team? Just because that may have worked for you, doesn't mean it will for the OP or anyone else. ....jk
Yukikazi Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Just because that may have worked for you, doesn't mean it will for the OP or anyone else. ....jk Cheeky cheeky
McGrupp Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 ugh this dating section is more depressing then the coping section. losers and their computers
alphamale Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I hate my life and I feel cursed that women hate me and never wanted to be with me. You couldn't imagine what its like to have the opposite sex as accessible as a trip to the moon. with the proliferation of call-girls and escort agencies i think that sex is not beyond the reach of any man
jw90063 Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Um, I don't think he is just talking about getting laid.
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I can't begin to imagine what could be the problem, here. You sound like a catch.
burning 4 revenge Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 losers and their computers thats a good title for a myspace music project or a blog
jw90063 Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 ugh this dating section is more depressing then the coping section. losers and their computers I can't begin to imagine what could be the problem, here. You sound like a catch. Maybe he sincerely has anxiety issues and such. The last thing he needs is someone making him feel even lower about himself. How is that going to help the problem.
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Maybe he sincerely has anxiety issues and such. The last thing he needs is someone making him feel even lower about himself. How is that going to help the problem. OK - are you a qualified therapist? Are you able to help him through this time? My point is that I see nothing productive whatsoever about coming on an online forum to bitch and moan about how ****ty one's life is. Get off your ass and go do something about it if it's that bad. If things are truly as bad as he says about the anxiety - GO TO A THERAPIST. Nobody here has a magic wand to fix him. I have some incredibly ****ty things going on in my life right now. I know for a fact that nobody on here can magically fix them - therefore, I choose to do something to fix them - not sit and bitch and moan about it. Not only that - I'm a little uptohere with "FML" posts. Things are NOT that bad. Give me a break.
alphamale Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Um, I don't think he is just talking about getting laid. you mean he's talking about having a "meaninful relationship"? i must have missed that
stevejohnson1976 Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 wow....some of you are huge a-holes. funny thing is, you a-holes probably have a lot in common with OP. this guy obviously doesnt need more people crapping on him....but you do it anyway. whats that say about you?
betamanlet Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 wow....some of you are huge a-holes. funny thing is, you a-holes probably have a lot in common with OP. this guy obviously doesnt need more people crapping on him....but you do it anyway. whats that say about you? THis place is just like real life, most people are complete crap. If you lose your wallet, and someone actually finds, and returns it, it likely will be missing all of the cash. Meanwhile, someone like me would just drop it in the mail and send it to the person, not taking anything.. The vast majority of people thinks if a person lets themselves get taken advantage of then it's okay if they are taken advantage of, feel they deserve it and have zero guilt for taking advantage of the person. We live in a sick society, of attention seekers, people seeking fame. I have no doubt most people have personality disorders bordering on being sociopaths.
thegreatmoose Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 losers and their computers Does it make you happy to call people losers? Not only that - I'm a little uptohere with "FML" posts. Things are NOT that bad. Give me a break. If you are so tired of "FML" posts, why dignify them with a response? By the way, I agree that going to a therapist would be a good idea for the OP.
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I love when people get self-righteous, calling out other people's posts for being judgmental...when, uh...isn't that exactly what you're doing? Just ironic, is all. I obviously wasn't the first that suspected "troll" with this thread. But oh, well. You guys continue to bash me - I'm out.
thegreatmoose Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I love when people get self-righteous, calling out other people's posts for being judgmental...when, uh...isn't that exactly what you're doing? Just ironic, is all. I obviously wasn't the first that suspected "troll" with this thread. But oh, well. You guys continue to bash me - I'm out. Nobody is bashing you and I really have no idea if the OP is a troll. Assuming he's not a troll, he needs to get help as soon as possible.
betamanlet Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I love when people get self-righteous, calling out other people's posts for being judgmental...when, uh...isn't that exactly what you're doing? Just ironic, is all. I obviously wasn't the first that suspected "troll" with this thread. But oh, well. You guys continue to bash me - I'm out. Do you go around telling homeless people they are failures and losers? What do you get out of insulting people? Do you feel better about yourself now that you put people like me and virgin down all the time?
Madelf Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 We live in a sick society, of attention seekers, people seeking fame. I have no doubt most people have personality disorders bordering on being sociopaths. Too bad you don't have any facts to back that statement, but why ruin a good story, right?
betamanlet Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Too bad you don't have any facts to back that statement, but why ruin a good story, right? Gee, well you're trolling this BBS as my ex girlfriend, and have the nerve to say the world isn't messed up when psychos like you go out of their way to stalk? What are the odds that my ex girlfriend managed to find a BBS I post on and starts posting and responding to me? I'm sure she's one to use her picture in an avatar as well, and try to write to me You stalkers are insane.
Author virgin Posted December 24, 2009 Author Posted December 24, 2009 I tried therapy and nothing helps. I'm not looking to just get laid, I want a loving relationship and marriage. Escort services absolutely turn me off. Seems much easier to go gay though.
Madelf Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Gee, well you're trolling this BBS as my ex girlfriend, and have the nerve to say the world isn't messed up when psychos like you go out of their way to stalk? What are the odds that my ex girlfriend managed to find a BBS I post on and starts posting and responding to me? I'm sure she's one to use her picture in an avatar as well, and try to write to me You stalkers are insane. The odds are about the same as some sending me snippets of posts that include you divulging personal info about your previous "conquests". A ton of people tried to help you on other boards, and you threw them all under the bus. Whatever it is you have has to stop, it's beyond being unhealthy. PS: Am I assuming you have no facts, btw?
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