mclovin Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 ""The FIRST dream: It was nightime. I looked out my front window and saw the figure of "him". I got scared and turned off all the lights in my house so it looked like I wasn't home. I heard "him" open the gate and approach my patio and I was terrified. For some reason, he knew he wasn't welcome, but persisted anyway. He kept looking through my windows. First, my bedroom window, then he looked through my kitchen window. He kept knocking on the door and looking in the kitchen window. I was terrified and was holding my cell phone debating whether or not to call one of my male friends to come protect me. Then I woke up. The SECOND dream: Again, it was nightime. This time he wasn't just peeking in and knocking at my door. He was trying to break down my door. Somehow, he got into my apartment-because all of a sudden I was behind a small, weak, wooden door (later I realized matched my bathroom door). He used his fists and even a crow bar to break in. He managed to almost get the door open and I managed to slam it back shut. I was freaking out and trying to call the police but I couldn't reach a phone. This kept occurring. Then I woke up. Below I have answered all your quesitons. HOwever, I would like to add some factual information on this man: -I dated him -He was overbearing, persistant, & jealous -He was always demanding with my time -I discontinued communication with him, but weeks later he started txting me, we wound up getting in a n arguement --- This man has not contacted me since and I am guessing he was pissed off enough to give up on me entirley. However, I am just curious why I am having these dreams about such a person that was not a big part of my life or if it even has anything to do with him and there isn't some hidden link to my dream that differs from what it is altogether. Any analysis on this? Thanks!
Author mclovin Posted December 24, 2009 Author Posted December 24, 2009 Additional info- This man I only dated on and off under 6 months The arguement was via text/phone-no IRL arguement We only dated-no relationship I am curious as to what this dream means-whether or not it's about my own latent fears in general, specifically him, etc.
Angel1111 Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I think it's kind of an obvious dream - he put you in fear. Six months is long enough for someone to traumatize you if they were abusive. Now that you're free of him, your mind is probably just exploring this more freely. Or it's kind of a reminder to stay away from him. Just my thoughts.
2much4-1person Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 ""The FIRST dream: It was nightime. I looked out my front window and saw the figure of "him". I got scared and turned off all the lights in my house so it looked like I wasn't home. I heard "him" open the gate and approach my patio and I was terrified. For some reason, he knew he wasn't welcome, but persisted anyway. He kept looking through my windows. First, my bedroom window, then he looked through my kitchen window. He kept knocking on the door and looking in the kitchen window. I was terrified and was holding my cell phone debating whether or not to call one of my male friends to come protect me. Then I woke up. The SECOND dream: Again, it was nightime. This time he wasn't just peeking in and knocking at my door. He was trying to break down my door. Somehow, he got into my apartment-because all of a sudden I was behind a small, weak, wooden door (later I realized matched my bathroom door). He used his fists and even a crow bar to break in. He managed to almost get the door open and I managed to slam it back shut. I was freaking out and trying to call the police but I couldn't reach a phone. This kept occurring. Then I woke up. Below I have answered all your quesitons. HOwever, I would like to add some factual information on this man: -I dated him -He was overbearing, persistant, & jealous -He was always demanding with my time -I discontinued communication with him, but weeks later he started txting me, we wound up getting in a n arguement --- This man has not contacted me since and I am guessing he was pissed off enough to give up on me entirley. However, I am just curious why I am having these dreams about such a person that was not a big part of my life or if it even has anything to do with him and there isn't some hidden link to my dream that differs from what it is altogether. Any analysis on this? Thanks! Well for one to me it seems that you were more scared of him in the relationship, that you were so scared to love him. But he was a big part of your life! time dosent matter its the foot prints that they leave in our minds and heart. If u can avoid thinking about him like completly erase him from your mind you should'nt have dreams about him no more.
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