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just so you know, i LOVE skinny guys. guys with big muscles are gross cheeseballs. i love skinny, tall, lanky pseudo-nerdy hipster types.

 

oh, and i'm kinda curvy, and i don't mind at all if a guy is skinnier than i am (i'm also 5'1 so even if he is skinny, he still probably weighs more than i do if he's taller).

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I'd be willing to be that the underbite is something you notice way more than other people. I haven't seen your face to it's very hard for me to say, but I'd guess that if you have a decent looking face, having an underbite or a strong chin wouldn't make that much of a difference.

 

The weight thing, however, would be a very big turn off to me. I am 5'8 and 110lbs and most people consider me a skinny girl! So I can only imagine how thin you are! I tend to like more stocky men. However, that said, it's a VERY personal preference and I do have friends that love skinny guys.

 

Do you get hit on by bigger women a lot? I tend to see a TON of large/overweight woman with super skinny man couples. Not knockin' it, just very curious!

 

funny you should say that because yes, the majority of women who actually come on to me (instead of the other way around) are women with thicker body types. I wonder why that is.

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If you look like that Wikipedia guy, the underbite is going to be a more severe problem, as it is impossible to conceal with clothing. Can you not have it repaired orthodontically? I understand they might have to do some hacking on your mandible, but if it looks like that, it might be worth it. The weight thing is a big issue- but I wouldn't worry about it too much.

 

Do this- Every day for 2 weeks, write down what you eat. Don't try to eat more or less, just eat whatever you feel like, but make an annotation in a notebook every time you eat of what you ate and how much you ate. You will see that you really don't eat as much as you think you do, as you might gorge one day, but then eat 400 calories the day after that. Skinny people don't have faster metabolisms, contrary to popular belief, rather their mind simply suppresses their hunger if it's caloric requirement for homeostasis has been met. It is an interesting evolutionary feature found only in ectomorphs that you will have to overcome to become a more healthy weight. Good luck!

 

My underbite isn't quite as bad as the guy in that wikipedia pic but its somewhat similar. It can be repaired orthodontically, but the catch is I would have to wear these terrible looking braces for about three years before they would operate. I just can't agree to it.

Imagine me with my underbite and weight probem, and then having huge braces on top of everything else.....for three years!!! I definitely wouldn't be gettinglaid then lol.

 

I don't understand some of what you said. What is homeostasis and what are ectomorphs?

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A well-trimmed beard would go a long way in reducing the effect of the underbite, if it suits you.

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A well-trimmed beard would go a long way in reducing the effect of the underbite, if it suits you.

 

thank you. I was hoping to get some good practical advice. Guess its goodbye to this baby-smooth face.

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Homeostasis is the bodies natural tendency to resist change, or to return to a benchmark. The constant temperature, the need to sleep the same number of hours a night, the tendency to stay at a certain weight, all are examples of homeostasis.

 

An ectomorph is basically a 'skinny' body type. Where many of the bones are visible, and the body is pretty much straight from shoulders through the hips, like a ruler.

 

I think the braces would be a good idea. Imagine if you could go back in time and put the braces on at some point in the past so that now, you have no underbite and nice teeth. Would you do it? I think you would. So imagine the future, you will wish that you had done it now.

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I think the braces would be a good idea. Imagine if you could go back in time and put the braces on at some point in the past so that now, you have no underbite and nice teeth. Would you do it? I think you would. So imagine the future, you will wish that you had done it now.

 

I agree. Plus they have the invisible braces and the braces that are on the back of the teeth. Besides, braces as an adult shows that you've got some money and that you care about your appearance. Three years will be up before you know it, and then you will be wishing you gotten braces three years earlier.

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Gain weight women dont like small guys

 

We want a guy whos strong enough to ravage us in the bedroom and pound us into subimssion:love:

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Gain weight women dont like small guys

Do you consider yourself a typical woman?

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Do you consider yourself a typical woman?

 

Most women i know think like me so i guess

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Most women i know think like me so i guess

Most women that you know rate superficial qualities above all else?

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Most women that you know rate superficial qualities above all else?

 

I mean we hope and want him to be a good guy obviously but at first glance its hugely important and to sustain a relationship their has to be that animal attraction u cant just think hes ok looking

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I mean we hope and want him to be a good guy obviously but at first glance its hugely important and to sustain a relationship their has to be that animal attraction u cant just think hes ok looking

Physical attraction is important, but there are so many other types of attraction. Being attracted to their personality is so much more important. Sure, having both is ideal, but I'd take a great personality and ok looks over an ok personality and great looks any day.

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Gain weight women dont like small guys

 

We want a guy whos strong enough to ravage us in the bedroom and pound us into subimssion:love:

 

Chris Brown is single these days. Maybe you could try to date him since you want a man to pound you into submission.

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LOL... only tried that once. Long, long drive home .....alone...

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