CBIIS1 Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I've been refusing to answer the phone when she calls for the kids, I let them do it. She now knocks at the door when she picks them up and waits there, she used to stay in her car. She called my cell the other night to talk to my daughter, she was never given the number by me or the ok. Yesterday, while I was at work she entered the home to pick up my daughter and answered my phone. It was my GF calling. The GF thought it was the daughter and asked "Is your daddy home?". The ex was speechless. After a minute of dead air, she handed the phone to my daughter. I suspect she's trying to agrivate me and suck me into something stupid. BTW, yesterday was her birthday and my son refused to visit her in fear she would keep him for Christmas. I'm being as nasty with her as possible. This NC thing is easy for me. I wish she'd get the hint but she sure is trying to get in my face. She left, said she no longer loved me, I got a GF a month later, she freaked but insisted she wanted her separation. She doesn't look happy, too bad.
Author CBIIS1 Posted December 24, 2009 Author Posted December 24, 2009 She called my cell again wanting to talk to our son who doesn't want to talk to her. She sounded sad. I guess someone is going to have a blue Christmas. She wanted to leave and I'm gonna miss her
nobmagnet Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 sailing her ship aint working?? tough poo on her. He crimble is going to be lonely. Her fault. hope she has a really bad day.
Author CBIIS1 Posted December 24, 2009 Author Posted December 24, 2009 Yes and no. A part of me (the ******* I'm slowly becoming or really always was) says good for you and the nice guy I can be and wish I could always be (I always get it up the pooper from someone when I get that way) does pray that she comes back to her senses and remembered to be the girl I used to know. I don't wish her any bad cause I know it'll come back to bite me. I don't want to bad mouth her because I once told her I loved her and I meant it. I don't want to trample her because I think she has her right to sin and a right to be forgiven if she ever wants to. I met her one summer night long ago hitchicking to the local watering hole. I just wish I was still standing there and that she just kept driving by. But then again, those two kids would never have been, so there was a reason for all of this. I see it, she doesn't and that's the way it is. I wish her hapiness and maybe the same could come my way, maybe.
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