Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 Betamanlet, I'm surprised you are still allowed on this site, considering no one agrees with you. The worst part is they think I'm a complete troll. They cannot contemplate what it's like being a celibate beta.. People, understand, if you don't get laid, it's ALL you think about. You take for granted what you have. I never even went to a high school dance. I didn't have my first date until AFTER I graduated from graduate school. You take what you've experienced, what you have, for granted, and you cannot possibly comprehend what it's like to be me, or someone like me.
Madelf Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Yet it's perfectly okay for women to whine all the time, and whiners are worse than guys on death row. i got it. I'ts better to be a murderer than be a whiner. Reminder: You have 3 other threads with that "logic".
donnamaybe Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 i got it. I'ts better to be a murderer than be a whiner. I didn't realize those were the only two choices people had in life.
MeganDoll Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 How about you approach women instead of complaining on a message board and hoping open day the women of your dreams comis knocking on your door?
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 How about you approach women instead of complaining on a message board and hoping open day the women of your dreams comis knocking on your door? Ignoring the double standard, I have no game, but will be reading up on it over the holidays.
donnamaybe Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 The only kind of woman you'll get employing "game" is some airhead. Is that really what you'd want? Just pull your chin out of the dirt and work with what you've got already! There IS a woman for you, but not if you keep up with the "poor me" mantra.
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 The only kind of woman you'll get employing "game" is some airhead. Is that really what you'd want? Just pull your chin out of the dirt and work with what you've got already! There IS a woman for you, but not if you keep up with the "poor me" mantra. I don't agree. I think all women require some amount of game. Hence why computer geeks tend to be failures with women, because they have no game... Some require less than others, but you still have to have some game.
MeganDoll Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Ignoring the double standard, I have no game, but will be reading up on it over the holidays. WHat game? Be yourself if that doesnt work then move on Youre a child deahtly afraid of rejection get over it
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 WHat game? Be yourself if that doesnt work then move on Youre a child deahtly afraid of rejection get over it That's the point, I've been myself for 34 years and where has it gotten me? The dating experience of a 12 year old? Most people have been married and divorced at my age. Being myself has gotten me a 5 month relationship once in my entire life. Being myself is NOT helping me get women.
donnamaybe Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I don't agree. I think all women require some amount of game. Hence why computer geeks tend to be failures with women, because they have no game... Some require less than others, but you still have to have some game. But you have no success, so perhaps you're wrong.
threebyfate Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 betamanlet, go get some game. Do something...anything...
MeganDoll Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 That's the point, I've been myself for 34 years and where has it gotten me? The dating experience of a 12 year old? Most people have been married and divorced at my age. Being myself has gotten me a 5 month relationship once in my entire life. Being myself is NOT helping me get women. Becasue you are not appraoching enough women,women dont just come up to you unless your amazing looking AN average guy isnt getitng a women by standing in a corner
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 But you have no success, so perhaps you're wrong. My other beta friends, with no game, are in the same boat. Those that I know who have game, are not in the same boat.. Is it just a giant coincidence that my entire life the guys with game ar ethe guys successful with women and the guys that don't have game, are total failures with women?
ADF Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I have to ask a very basic question. What is a "beta?" I've never heard that before.
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 Becasue you are not appraoching enough women,women dont just come up to you unless your amazing looking AN average guy isnt getitng a women by standing in a corner Fine, so long as you can admit this is a double standard, I will work on this more.
espec10001 Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Dude, I've been celibate for 4 years now. It may not be as long as you have, but seriously, I've learned there are other things in life besides sex. I've gotten pretty good at the guitar and learned how to sing and write songs. This has become my life's passion. I don't even focus on girls anymore, but if I happen to meet one great! I still keep my eye out for a golden opportunity to score a girl that I really want, but I don't make it my sole focus. If it doesn't happen and I never meet anyone, I'll still have a deep passion for music and all aspects of it that it feels just as good if not better than sex when I'm playing and singing for people. You have to find a use with your hands. If you have idle hands then this leads to depression and self pity. Start getting to work with your hands!
donnamaybe Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 My other beta friends, with no game, are in the same boat. Those that I know who have game, are not in the same boat.. Is it just a giant coincidence that my entire life the guys with game ar ethe guys successful with women and the guys that don't have game, are total failures with women? Define "game."
threebyfate Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 You have to find a use with your hands. If you have idle hands then this leads to depression and self pity. Start getting to work with your hands!Great advice! Most people through a dry spell, use their hands A LOT.
espec10001 Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Great advice! Most people through a dry spell, use their hands A LOT. I wasn't talking about masturbation. I was talking about finding hobbies, something that you can enjoy doing by yourself or with other people. A life passion.
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 Dude, I've been celibate for 4 years now. It may not be as long as you have, but seriously, I've learned there are other things in life besides sex. I've gotten pretty good at the guitar and learned how to sing and write songs. This has become my life's passion. I don't even focus on girls anymore, but if I happen to meet one great! I still keep my eye out for a golden opportunity to score a girl that I really want, but I don't make it my sole focus. If it doesn't happen and I never meet anyone, I'll still have a deep passion for music and all aspects of it that it feels just as good if not better than sex when I'm playing and singing for people. You have to find a use with your hands. If you have idle hands then this leads to depression and self pity. Start getting to work with your hands! I'll sit down and brainstorm some hobby ideas. i'm not musically inclined, so guitar is out. I was horrible in high school music, and my fingers don't work that well... I'm starting to read about chemistry and biology to prepare for going back to school to study premed
threebyfate Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I wasn't talking about masturbation. I was talking about finding hobbies, something that you can enjoy doing by yourself or with other people. A life passion. Same difference!
espec10001 Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I'll sit down and brainstorm some hobby ideas. i'm not musically inclined, so guitar is out. I was horrible in high school music, and my fingers don't work that well... I'm starting to read about chemistry and biology to prepare for going back to school to study premed That's good! Focus on other things! Find an interest in life besides obsession with your lack of sex. I have adapted to no sex, it isn't that bad really. I like having sex but I don't NEED to have it.
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 Define "game." I would say it's the social skills required to create sexual tension and interest in the opposite sex. Knowing what to do to create an interest, and developing the interest, by playing with emotions, to develop said interest. Just basically, whatever a guy does who knocks your socks off vs. the server room nerd who doesn't know how to.
MeganDoll Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 My other beta friends, with no game, are in the same boat. Those that I know who have game, are not in the same boat.. Is it just a giant coincidence that my entire life the guys with game ar ethe guys successful with women and the guys that don't have game, are total failures with women? Has notihgn to do with game you guys proably are shy domt approach women and maybe arent very good looking and only want women above your level Im gonna let you in on a secseret women like good lookign guys,your friends who get women praobly are confident around women but they dont get women becasue of some magical "game" they get woemn becasue they are good looking and we like that very much Lower your standards and go for more homlier looking women who cant get these men
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 That's good! Focus on other things! Find an interest in life besides obsession with your lack of sex. I have adapted to no sex, it isn't that bad really. I like having sex but I don't NEED to have it. You must not compare yourself to others. I just find it difficult to be comfortable with this in a hypersexual society, where everything is sexualized, where 13 year olds have sex, yet i cannot get laid to save my life. Believe me, I was worse when I lived next to neighbors that you could hear having sex. i felt like utter crap. Now I'm not in that situation and am better. But being reminded of what you're missing out on, really sucks.
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