carhill Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Sure, I lived that life, but just chose to look at it differently. Up to you how you react to life. Happy Holidays I did have to laugh a bit, remembering how I went to the formals/proms, etc.; I was the yearbook photographer
jerbear Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 My Psychology 101 professor said in class "you may not need sex to live, but you will lose your will to live if you don't get it". So again, you are taking what you have for granted. Think from the perspective of someone who hasn't had sex in over 2 years. Since you bought up Psychology, I suggest Philosophy by reading up on Nietzsche and Freud in regards to relationships. I think you are stuck in Nietzsche's world where you are focused on one thing in the relationship. You are looking for an sexual relationship and not getting it. Maybe you should consider Freud's view by taking a step back and consider other arrangements. Like focus on one but also pay for it when your in an lull. Maybe even go out and pose like an alpha and aim for an ONS.
bayouboi Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 While I don't condone beta's bitching I'd like to point out this is false. It's not false. There's so many women out there that I guarantee you that one of them would be willing to sleep with him. The problem becomes, though, that he probably rejects them based on their characteristics. He's throwing a pity party here because he can't get with some drop dead gorgeous babe, but why would they lower their standards to someone who's obviously lacking in certain areas when they are able to choose from the tip of the top? If he lowered his standards, he'd get laid.
Hot Carl Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Maybe the problem is that you spend too much of your mental energy feeling sorry for yourself. You need to understand that no one here cares deeply enough for you or the predicament you're in to do any more than they already have. You just aren't going to find solutions here. You might find some empathy, but when you switch your computer off you'll realize how worthless that is. What you need to do is take action. Talking about this isn't going to solve your problem. LS has little to offer you that hasn't already been provided (and ignored). In the end what you're going to have to face is that this is your problem and there's nothing outside of you that can fix it or make you feel better about it. Sooner or later you're going to have to toughen up. I'm not telling you to go away and stop posting. I'm telling you that dwelling on your problem is all you appear to be doing. And what has that accomplished so far?
MeganDoll Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 It's not false. There's so many women out there that I guarantee you that one of them would be willing to sleep with him. The problem becomes, though, that he probably rejects them based on their characteristics. He's throwing a pity party here because he can't get with some drop dead gorgeous babe, but why would they lower their standards to someone who's obviously lacking in certain areas when they are able to choose from the tip of the top? If he lowered his standards, he'd get laid. Yeah im sure the op is depressed when he came to the realazation he cant get a 10 and is now throwing a tantrum and throwign all women under the bus Unless hes repulsive or a mental case[which seems quite psosible] theres no resoan he cant get one women when theyres so many out there
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 It's not false. There's so many women out there that I guarantee you that one of them would be willing to sleep with him. The problem becomes, though, that he probably rejects them based on their characteristics. He's throwing a pity party here because he can't get with some drop dead gorgeous babe, but why would they lower their standards to someone who's obviously lacking in certain areas when they are able to choose from the tip of the top? If he lowered his standards, he'd get laid. You clearly have never lived in Washington, DC.
Vertex Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I suppose everyone else is in the wrong and you are the only one in the right
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 I suppose everyone else is in the wrong and you are the only one in the right No, but if my odds are better being on death row than being myself, then something is at least partially wrong with society. I admit I have no game. That's a problem I have.
Beerme Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Again, I refuse to become someone I'm not just to get women. From reading some of your threads that you've started, I tend to think that you use your lack of a relationship as an excuse for your misery. I think that your misery goes way deeper. You have a serious disdain for yourself, and I feel genuinely sorry for you.
donnamaybe Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I created a thread about attitude that is ALL ABOUT people who think like this.
lance.dark Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Please stop talking. There is plenty of good advice, and all of it strikes the same chord. Man up, change your attitude, and go get what you want. Stop acting like a twelve year old girl.
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 I created a thread about attitude that is ALL ABOUT people who think like this. And we also know if I were a female, and wrote a thread saying my boyfriend wasn't good enough for me, and I cheated on him, I would get all sorts of support, pats on the back, telling me I have done nothing wrong. Instead, I complain about lack of sex, and suddenly I'm a a worthless human being, below serial killers on death row and I deserve everything I get in life.. Another double standard.
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 Thanks people. I hope you realize, I like, most other men, have no outlet for issues like this. I hold it in, I have nobody I could tell it to, or would want to, as their reactions would be the same, insults, "be a man".. This is my only release valve.
sally4sara Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Another one of these threads? And then it dawned on me; -so so angry at women -always pointing out how much easier he thinks women have it -always going on about the things he thinks women can get away with that he can't.... Sounds like you're jealous of women much more than men who have more dating success. Do you envy their position in the couples you watch with your coveting eyes? Maybe you want a man and just can't except that about yourself? You compare yourself to women more often that you do other men. And you keep trying to hide behind the "nice guy" term when you are clearly to hateful to qualify as "nice". Dude, its perfectly okay to come out of that closet......
lance.dark Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 There is plenty of advice here, you refuse to listen to it.
stapelfahrer drew Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 You talk a lot about how easy it would be if you were female. Do you realize if you were female and getting tons of sex, you would be getting it from guys? Seriously. Whenever I think, man it'd be nice to be a woman and get sex whenever I want, I realize it would be with men and that just...bleh.
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 Another one of these threads? And then it dawned on me; -so so angry at women -always pointing out how much easier he thinks women have it -always going on about the things he thinks women can get away with that he can't.... Sounds like you're jealous of women much more than men who have more dating success. Do you envy their position in the couples you watch with your coveting eyes? Maybe you want a man and just can't except that about yourself? You compare yourself to women more often that you do other men. And you keep trying to hide behind the "nice guy" term when you are clearly to hateful to qualify as "nice". Dude, its perfectly okay to come out of that closet...... Hurray, more insults. now i'm "gay" because I have a different opinion and you cannot contemplate what my situation is like... I'm not going to lower myself and return an insult to you. Thank god for the internet for it gives me a place to vent.
MeganDoll Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 No offense but you are clearly nuts and unstable,theyres plenty of women whod date you if you werent such a complainer problem is deep down you want those 9's and 10's and cant have them and it pains you.
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 No offense but you are clearly nuts and unstable,theyres plenty of women whod date you if you werent such a complainer problem is deep down you want those 9's and 10's and cant have them and it pains you. Where do you come up with this stuff? When have I ever stated I want a 9 or a 10? I'm nuts and unstable because I'm upset about not having sex for over two years? You would probably have gone on a rampage, or been locked up in a loonie bin. You simply cannot contemplate what it's like being a beta. it's such a foreign concept to you, you'll never understand. My requirements for a woman are: (1) relatively sane (2) not obese (3) not materialistic that's it.
MeganDoll Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Where do you come up with this stuff? When have I ever stated I want a 9 or a 10? I'm nuts and unstable because I'm upset about not having sex for over two years? You would probably have gone on a rampage, or been locked up in a loonie bin. You simply cannot contemplate what it's like being a beta. it's such a foreign concept to you, you'll never understand. My requirements for a woman are: (1) relatively sane (2) not obese (3) not materialistic that's it. Stop it,if u wanted just those requierements u can easily obtain that if you tried You made some comment a few weeks back which showed that you had a hard time accepting these "hot" women were unatainable to you thats the problem
donnamaybe Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 And we also know if I were a female, and wrote a thread saying my boyfriend wasn't good enough for me, and I cheated on him, I would get all sorts of support, pats on the back, telling me I have done nothing wrong. Instead, I complain about lack of sex, and suddenly I'm a a worthless human being, below serial killers on death row and I deserve everything I get in life.. Another double standard. Oh, BOO f'ing HOO! YOU are the one constantly bringing up death row inmates, so don't blame anyone else for the comparison. Do you REALLY think any self respecting woman wants to be with a whiner? Hee-YELL no!
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 Stop it,if u wanted just those requierements u can easily obtain that if you tried You made some comment a few weeks back which showed that you had a hard time accepting these "hot" women were unatainable to you thats the problem You're confusing me with someone else. I would NEVER EVER even want to date a "hot" woman even if I could, because I would have so much competition and pressure, and likely she has an attitude as well due to getting everything handed to her on a silver platter based upon her looks. And no, I cannot have those traits I set out easily, because it eliminates so many women, especially where I live.
Author betamanlet Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 Oh, BOO f'ing HOO! YOU are the one constantly bringing up death row inmates, so don't blame anyone else for the comparison. Do you REALLY think any self respecting woman wants to be with a whiner? Hee-YELL no! Yet it's perfectly okay for women to whine all the time, and whiners are worse than guys on death row. i got it. I'ts better to be a murderer than be a whiner.
psdoff Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Betamanlet, I'm surprised you are still allowed on this site, considering no one agrees with you.
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